Born in the world, He Zeng is not a lonely boat, floating in the vast sea of people. Or the wind and the sun, or the rain and the wind. The people around you come and go in a hurry, who can stop for you? There may be only one answer: those who can make your heart happy and warm.
How? Say: Develop the habit of discovering the strengths of others. It's not easy, but it's worth the effort. People in the world are mostly self-centered, and they often look at their own strengths and the weaknesses of others. Who knows, acting like this will only make you more narrow-minded and lonely.
To err is human? Everyone has their own weaknesses and also their own strengths. If you keep an eye on the shortcomings of others, over time, you will find that you are surrounded by people who are causing you troubles. Why? For you have built an invisible wall for yourself to shut out those who can make your heart happy.
On the contrary, when you try to find and discover the good in others, you will find that there are more and more people around you who bring you happiness. It's not because the world has changed, it's because your state of mind has changed. You are willing to appreciate others, you are willing to understand others, you are willing to forgive others. In this way, your world will naturally be full of beauty and harmony.
In life, it is enough to have a confidant. But it's not easy to get a confidant, and you need to raise it with your heart. How to raise? It starts with the habit of discovering the good in others. In this way, your life path will be wider and smoother.
So, the next time you're interacting with someone, look at their strengths more and focus less on their weaknesses. You will find that the world is not as bad as you imagined, but full of infinite possibilities and beauty.