No matter where you are, don't argue with your parents about right and wrong, your parents are old, and you should be filial; Don't plan with your lover, your lover is tired, be tolerant; Don't vent your emotions with your child, who is still young and needs to be educated.
In real life, we will inevitably encounter conflicts with our parents, with our lovers, and with our children to vent our emotions. So, how to create a warm and happy family? Let's take the following three key steps to build a more harmonious and happy family.
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1. Do not argue with your parents, know filial piety People who truly know filial piety will not argue with their parents about right and wrong, but treat them with understanding and tolerance. Our parents are the longest companions in our lives, and they have given us selfless love and hard work. Therefore, instead of arguing with them, we should repay them with care and companionship. Think about it, when our parents are old, what they need is care and warmth, not our unnecessary arguments. A friend once had an argument with his parents over a trivial matter, which led to a long cold war. Later, he realized that arguing with his parents would only hurt each other, so he took the initiative to apologize to his parents and make up for his past mistakes with care and companionship. Since then, their relationship has become more harmonious and the family has become more harmonious and happy. Clause.
Second, it is often an unhealthy attitude not to count the length and shortness of the lover, to know how to tolerate it in the relationship, and to care about the strengths and weaknesses of both parties. People who truly know how to tolerate will not be interested in the gains and losses of their lovers, but will know how to give and accept in their feelings. Lovers are the companions in our lives, and they bring us endless warmth and support. When we are planning with our loved ones, we will ignore their selfless dedication and dedication. And true love is an art of devotion and inclusion. We need to learn to maintain our feelings with understanding and support, rather than endlessly calculating gains and losses. There was a couple who experienced a major hardship in their lives and suffered a huge setback in their financial situation. Despite the difficult situation, instead of pointing fingers at each other, they supported each other and worked together to get through it. Through tolerance and understanding, they built a stronger foundation of love, and ultimately achieved career success and family happiness. Clause.
3. Don't vent your emotions with your children, and know that educating them is our most valuable asset, and they need our care and guidance. People who really know how to educate will not vent their emotions on their children, but use reason and patience to guide their growth. Children are innocent and they need our guidance and role models. When we lose our temper with our children or pour out our emotions on them, we not only hurt their hearts, but also have a bad impact on the family. Instead, we should use reason and patience to communicate with our children and educate them on the right values and codes of conduct. One parent chose to have a calm conversation with his child when he made a mistake and patiently explained the consequences of the mistake and the right thing to do. They did not lose their temper or blame their children, but made them understand their mistakes and guide them to correct them through education. This kind of education not only helps children grow, but also promotes family harmony and happiness. 
In short, building a harmonious and happy family requires us to know how to be filial to our parents, tolerate our lovers and educate our children. These three key steps can help us build good family relationships and create a warm and happy family atmosphere. When we care, understand, and respect our family from the bottom of our hearts, it becomes the best place in our lives.