People who make you feel uncomfortable, be sure to stay away as soon as possible;
Timely stop loss can avoid more losses for you.
With each other, you always feel "pressure".
This kind of pressure is more of an emotional pressure.
For example, the other party's speech is often "aggressive";
Either taunt you, belittle you, or raise the bar with you.
For the sake of face, you always suppress your emotions;
Even if you are angry in your heart, you will not directly have a showdown with the other party and turn your face.
This kind of pressure will cause a lot of trouble to your social interactions;
After a long time, you will "hate the house and the black";
Because the other person is alone, I hate the circle you are in, or your job.
It's like some children are bullied by a classmate and will say to their parents when they come home
I don't want to go to school anymore."
The most essential reasons are:
The child's heart is full of pressure in that environment.
If you have such people around you, be sure to stay away as soon as possible;
Anyone who makes you feel stressed is prone to a potential crisis for you.
The other party always consumes your "energy".
Psychologically speaking:
People are more inclined to "good, positive, positive" people or things;
If you are surrounded by negative, negative energies, your state of mind will also be greatly affected over time.
Everyone's "inner energy" is limited.
When you burn off energy on trivial, bad things;
When you are surrounded by people who like to complain, like to complain, and cause trouble for you;
It doesn't take long for your own energy to be depleted.
And at that time, you will fall into a state of depression, internal friction, anxiety, and other restlessness.
You must make friends with "positive, positive people".
Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black;
What kind of person you are with will have a great impact on your career and life.
The lack of inner energy will cause a series of chain reactions to your career, relationship, and life.
The other party is always "bothering you".
Have you ever had this experience socially?
There are certain people around you who especially like to trouble you.
Let you help buy food, let you help with work, let you help drive people, let you help move ......
It's almost time for you to help with the kids.
This kind of person is very troublesome.
Things that can be solved by yourself are going to trouble you;
The answer that can be searched is clear, but you have to give an answer;
Problems that can be solved quickly for a little money have to cost you a lot of money to help.
If you are a person who is "not good at rejection", then you will fall into a state of internal friction and anger.
When you're done helping, you're not happy;
After helping to solve the problem, the other party did not give you any thanks.
It seems to be in their subconscious:
You are friends, you should help him unconditionally, otherwise you are a bad person."
I found that there are many people who are "confused" and have no sense of boundaries.
Relying on the relationship of friends, they blindly ask for you;
If you help him, he may not thank you;
If you don't help him, he will turn against you.
If you have this kind of "troublesome person" around you, stay away as soon as possible.
They are the "bottomless pit", no matter how much you pay, you will suffer in the end.
You are thin-skinned and don't know how to refuse;
But he is thick-skinned and has no sense of proportion.
The result is: he will only test your bottom line step by step and take advantage of it.
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