Imagine, when the "prop" of money is missing on the stage of marriage, is it like a glass of boiled water without sugar and salt, although the passion at the beginning is like fire, but after a long time, the passion will eventually fade in the long river of years, and the rest is only plain and pale.
Let's talk about the sense of ritual. In the eyes of many people, a sense of ritual is an integral part of marriage. But you know what? A good sense of ritual requires solid material conditions as support. Without material support, the so-called sense of ritual will only become empty and contrived, and become a mere formality.
In married life, whether it is the ordinary daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, or the unique memory of holiday celebrations, it is inseparable from a solid economic foundation. It is not only the guarantee of the continuation of love, but also the key to improving the quality of our life.
No, on Valentine's Day this year, such an incident happened in Henan. A husband surprises his wife by buying a bouquet of roses for her. But what is surprising is thatThe wife was not surprised, but threw the flower on the ground in front of her husband, and also shared this scene on social platforms.
The incident quickly became a hot topic online. Some netizens said: ".When love is so poor that there are no crumbs left, what is the use of this sense of ritual? It will only be offensive！Indeed, when the pressure of life is overwhelming, the sense of ritual that money buys can really become a burden.
The wife explained that the current situation of the family is very difficult, and the husband works alone to earn money and has to raise four children. Usually life is meticulous, and every penny has to be broken into cents. The more than 100 yuan of roses is not only more than 100 yuan in her eyes, but the children's living expenses for a few days, a few clothes, a month's gas and electricity bills at home, and so on.
Netizens are also talking about this matter. Some people think that the wife is doing the right thing, after all, the current financial situation of the family really does not allow such waste. But some people feel that their wives are too disappointed, and a piece of her husband's heart is shattered to the ground.
In my opinion, a good married life does require a sense of ritual. But with limited money, we still have to do what we can. Blindly following the trend and pursuing romance will only be off-putting. Wouldn't it be more affordable to buy a dress for your wife or something to eat for your children instead of spending your money on expensive roses?
So, what do you think about this? Feel free to leave a comment to share your views!
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