If you don't fight, you don't know each other", these five concise and profound words are just like the delicate balance and contradictions that often exist in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In recent years, discussions about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have emerged in an endless stream, and film and television works on various family themes have also emerged in an endless stream, however, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still a problem that plagues many families.
In the face of this relationship, we might as well change the angle, perhaps".Don't fight, don't know each otheris the best way to put it.
If you don't fight, you don't know each other" is a common saying that comes from an ancient folk proverb, which means that it is through quarrels and conflicts that each other can truly understand each other's inner world.
In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the two parties often have differences and contradictions because of trivial matters in life, educational concepts and other aspects, which requires the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to constantly scrutinize and understand each other in the run-in, so as to "do not fight and do not know each other".
First of all, there are often conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over daily family matters.
For example, issues such as housekeeping, eating habits, and children's education in the family can all become friction points.
On these issues, it is often difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to reach an agreement because of differences in age, growth environment, etc.
This requires the two sides to gradually negotiate and resolve the issue on the basis of understanding each other.
For both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, through running-in and discussion, they gradually understand each other's positions and views, and finally achieve acceptance and tolerance.
Only after experiencing quarrels and conflicts can both parties get to know each other more deeply, and thus establish a stronger relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Secondly, there are often disagreements between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law on children's education and family philosophy.
For example, a mother-in-law may be influenced by traditional beliefs and prefer a harsh approach to parenting, while a daughter-in-law may be more respectful of the child's personality and development space.
In this case, reasonable communication and mutual understanding are particularly important.
Through discussions, quarrels, and even conflicts, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gradually recognize each other's views and beliefs, and on the basis of mutual respect, work together to develop a more realistic education method and family philosophy.
In this process, both parties will understand each other better and cherish this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship more.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that has had quarrels and conflicts is often more based on a deeper level of understanding and respect.
This is not to encourage quarrels between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, but when quarrels occur, both parties are able to understand and respect each other, so as to truly solve problems, alleviate conflicts, and establish a more harmonious relationship.
Achieving this kind of relationship is by no means an easy task, and both parties need to continuously improve their emotional intelligence and wisdom in the run-in.
Only in this situation can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law truly develop healthily and have more strength to cope with various challenges in family life.
The concept of "no fighting, no acquaintance" in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law means that the two parties will eventually form a more stable and harmonious relationship through understanding, respect and tolerance in the run-in.
Only after experiencing quarrels and conflicts can both parties truly understand each other's values, lifestyles and principles, so as to establish a stronger mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship based on mutual understanding.
Of course, this is not to encourage frequent conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, but to guide both parties to learn to respect and understand each other in conflicts, so as to achieve a better relationship through running-in.
I believe that only when both parties can resolve the conflict with a tolerant heart and rational communication, can they finally achieve "no fighting, no acquaintance", and more able to achieve tacit understanding and mutual understanding with their mother-in-law.
In modern society, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always plagued many families.
Perhaps the five words "don't fight, don't know each other" can give us some inspiration to some extent, and build a more harmonious family relationship through understanding and respect.
Only when mutual understanding and respect are truly achieved can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law move towards a better future.