Asking someone to do something is usually just asking someone to help you achieve a desired result. As for the process of achieving wishes, most of them are not up to themselves, after all, they are asking others.
Asking someone for help means building trust first, and if you lack trust in the person you are asking for, you will probably not be able to achieve your wishes. The embodiment of trust is to follow the arrangement as much as possible and act according to the instructions of the person being asked.
Although I am a little uncertain in my heart, especially Lao Zhou, who has more social experience than me and is not as gullible as I am about others, does not know about the person I introduced, and is not familiar with (in fact, I don't know very well myself) The elder brother of the same branch of my democratic party is a little suspicious (empathy, don't I often maintain a certain "wariness" of his friends and acquaintances?). )。But due to the forced situation, we also have to place great hopes on my brother. After all, at the time, it was pretty much our only hope.
Therefore, I showed no "humility" to my brother and was ready to do everything he said, even though he had not yet made it clear that he could help.
That evening, Lao Zhou and I had a casual meal and set foot on the way to the hotel where he studied according to my brother's request. This road of less than 20 kilometers is a road that Lao Zhou and I were familiar with many years ago, and it was still a dilapidated old road at that time. For me, this avenue – whether it's the old road of the past or the new road that has been renovated from the old one – is one of the most traveled roads in my life. To put it mildly, it is a road paved with hope, longing, happiness, pain, and memories of my youth. One year, on a spring and summer morning, I walked the entire 20-kilometer avenue myself. It's not just the road to my destination that I'm familiar with, it's almost everywhere in and around it that I've left my footprints in.
It's just that this breezy evening and Lao Zhou re-walked on this familiar avenue, and their mood was different from every time before. Along the way, Lao Zhou asked me some questions about my eldest brother from time to time, some of which I could answer, and some that I didn't know myself. I know his concerns, not only about expenses, but also about finding the wrong person and losing precious time, not only will we not be able to avoid or reduce our losses, but they may also lead to greater losses. So I have to look relaxed and confident, even if it's something I don't know about or have doubts.
On the way, I contacted my brother several times to determine the place to meet. At first, the location was a hotel, but then he called me ** and told me to change to a restaurant, saying that he and a few friends were eating outside. Just as we were about to arrive, he told us to go somewhere else.
The location has been changed back and forth, and I feel a little unhappy. I don't care about myself, the most important thing is that Lao Zhou, who is worried about driving, has ideas, not to mention that he has some concerns. There are many good things, I comforted myself, anyway, the location is not far away, change it, and it is very important to ask people to be obedient.
It's just that when we waited around and near to find the new location designated by my brother, we were still a little disappointed by the scene in front of us......
Good morning, February 20.