Education is an ever-changing field, and everyone has their own opinion on it.
But in my eyes, the best education is actually teaching, loving, and punishing.
tubes
You might say, isn't it all about free-range education now?
Why "have a tube"?
But have you ever thought that, as the old saying goes, "If a tree is not pruned, it will not grow straight." ”
Children are like little saplings, if they are not properly guided and managed, they may grow crookedly.
Think about it, if a child is not well disciplined, they may become headstrong, disrespectful, and impolite.
Such children, no matter how good their academic performance is, will find it difficult to gain a foothold in society.
Because in this society, it is not only about your ability, but also about your character and attitude.
I saw a small story shared by a netizen:
When I was a child, I was playing in the park with my friends and threw away a piece of garbage.
When my mom saw it, she immediately stopped it and told me to pick it up and throw it in the trash.
Although I felt aggrieved at the time, looking back now, I really appreciate my mother's discipline.
One of my casual behaviors may cause trouble for the cleaners, such as being criticized by the boss or even deducting wages.
Therefore, management is the key to education, and education without management is incomplete.
It is only when we give our children proper guidance and management that they can become truly good people.
Love
There is an old saying, "Love is the soul of education." ”
This is not true at all.
If a teacher does not have love for his students, then his education may become cold and lose its vitality.
On the contrary, if a teacher is full of love, he can not only teach, but also ignite the fire in the students, stimulating their curiosity and curiosity.
I still remember when I was a child, I met a teacher who was particularly caring.
She always treats every student with a smile and will give patient guidance and help no matter what difficulties we encounter.
Every time I communicate with her, I can feel that I am valued and cared for.
It was a really warm feeling.
Of course, the education of love is not just talk.
It requires us to give and practice.
As the saying goes, "Educate with love, listen with your heart." ”
If we only pay lip service to love, but in fact we don't act, then such love is empty and meaningless.
This is not only a requirement for teachers, but also for our parents.
Love is mutual, and it is only when we learn to give and receive love that we can truly feel the power of education.
Penalty
The ancients said, "There are no rules." ”
The same is true in education, where appropriate punishment can make students more discerning between right and wrong.
Imagine if a child did something wrong and was not punished in any way, they might mistakenly believe that their behavior was acceptable.
However, if we give appropriate punishment, they will realize their mistakes and learn to take responsibility.
I remember when I was a kid, I once stole a neighbor's apple with a friend.
As a result, the neighbor found out that instead of beating us or scolding us, he asked us to help him clean up the fallen leaves under the apple tree.
This small punishment made me deeply aware of my mistake, and I still remember it vividly.
I believe that the best education is one that combines love and punishment.
Love can make students feel cared for and supported, while punishment can teach them self-discipline and responsibility.
Professor Li Meijin once said this:
Educate your child as early as possible, otherwise, society will educate him for you later.
And to educate children, we must pay attention to methods.
Teaching, love, and punishment are the best ways to educate.
I hope you can make good use of it.
I believe that there are no bear children, only wrong ways of education.