The so-called "backbone" refers to a person's ideological temperament and spiritual personality, which can also be called a kind of inner fortitude and perseverance. This stubborn human quality is admired and celebrated, but in real life, few people can achieve the state of backbone longevity.
Backbone has a variety of manifestations in the social relationship between people, it is not simply existing in our lives, but on the contrary, it is inseparable from the trade-off of interests, and it requires the courage to choose and face reality in order to make a person's backbone occupy the high point of morality, which is admirable.
In this materialistic society, the unspoken rules of life and work are everywhere, in order to survive, many people will put aside the word "backbone" and become mediocre people, and their sharpness will even be polished by life to lose themselves, and finally helplessly follow the social environment and become one of the submissives.
And why are those who have a very small number of "backbones" able to stand on a high place and become enviable victors who defeat worldliness, fame, fortune and rules? Because they not only know how to make trade-offs to see the future prospects, but also have the ability to resist risks, they dare to give up and bravely challenge life. That is to say, their character traits and behavioral abilities are resolute and strong, and they would rather be broken than destroyed, completely rely on their own strong thoughts and the ability to accumulate strength and power.
When a person succumbs to a certain force or individual for a certain reason or benefit, he has lost the value of his own existence, and at the same time begins to accept that the path of life without "backbone" has become driven by fate. So, he had to find a reason to declare the meaning of his life to the world, because he knew that he no longer had the ability to resist life, which is also the current situation of life encountered by many ordinary people.
Therefore, if you want to be a person with backbone, you must first make yourself strong, establish strong willpower, cultivate and sharpen your brave character, and establish confidence in maintaining a positive and optimistic life for your life goals. But what is more important is to continue to learn a variety of skills based on society at any time, and to have outstanding points to make people admire, only in this way can there be more opportunities to choose, so that their true talent and learning become the most powerful weight to show their backbone.
Life is a process of continuous learning, progress and change, and I hope that "backbone" can become a spiritual support for everyone to control their own destiny, do what they want to do, and achieve their ideal life.
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