For love, everyone has feelings and words. People in the world are indispensable to love only one person, and both of them love each other like glue. But the law and morality of marriage allow only one person to be loved. What about this?
I think the only way to do this is to let the other side choose freely. If the other party abandons the law, reason and morality and chooses you, you accept it. Although it will cause a lot of trouble, you should accept it. If the other party loves you and loves you, but considering that you are condemned and restricted by the law, reason and morality, and you are not chosen by the pain of love, you should let yourself leave him (her), never entangle the other party, never affect the other party's life, this is a way to deal with each other's well-being.
There is also this situation, knowing that the other party is with you, it is impossible to be happy, and it is impossible for you to give him (her) happiness, even if you also love each other to death, then you should also give up, and you can't hurt him (her) because the other party loves you. This kind of love for the purpose of the happiness of the other party can be said to be noble and great, because you love others to the point of thinking about the happiness of others and are willing to suffer their own losses, do you say noble?Is it great?Yes, to love each other is to make each other happy and happy, if you don't consider these at all, then when you love others, the value that others get is inOf course, people say that love is selfish, whether it is noble or not, great or not. But I think at least don't hurt others because they love you, selfishness must have a precondition, and there must be a degree.