Revelation! Why do boys hate their girlfriends checking their phones? The secret behind the crisis of confidence
In the hustle and bustle of the city, Xiao Li and Xiao Fang are a couple who seem to be in love. However, recently, there has been a lot of trouble between them because of a trivial matter - checking their mobile phones. Why is that? Is it really as the outside world says, boys have ulterior secrets? Today, let's walk into Xiao Li's inner world and explore the truth behind it.
Xiao Li is a programmer and has a busy schedule and often needs to work overtime. Xiaofang is a delicate girl who has extremely high requirements for feelings. She is always worried that Xiao Li has another woman outside, so she will ask to check Xiao Li's mobile phone from time to time. At first, Xiao Li didn't care, and even felt that it was his girlfriend's concern for him. But as time went by, Xiao Fang's behavior of checking her phone became more and more frequent, which made Xiao Li feel pressured.
One night, Xiao Li worked overtime until late before coming home. As soon as I entered the door, I saw Xiao Fang sitting on the sofa with a gloomy face. Xiao Li knew that something was wrong, but he still walked over with a hard head. Sure enough, Xiao Fang snatched his phone and began to look through it carefully. Xiao Li stood aside, with mixed feelings in his heart.
Why do you always check my phone like this? Xiao Li finally couldn't help but ask.
'Cause I don't worry about you! Xiao Fang replied without raising her head, "You come back so late every day, how do I know what you did outside?" ”
I'm working! Can't you trust me? Xiao Li felt very helpless.
Trust? How do you want me to trust you? I know best what you men think, always like the new and hate the old! Xiao Fang's tone became more and more excited.
Xiao Li was silent. He knew that no matter how he explained it, Xiao Fang would not believe it. He began to reflect on whether the relationship was really worth continuing.
In fact, Xiao Li is not the only boy who dislikes his girlfriend checking his mobile phone. In real life, many boys have similar problems. They feel that checking their mobile phones not only violates their privacy, but also distrusts each other's feelings. And this distrust often becomes the fuse for a broken relationship.
So, why do guys be so disgusted with their girlfriends checking their phones? Are there any other reasons besides privacy and trust concerns?
Perhaps, behind this is also hidden the need for boys' self-esteem and security. In relationships, boys also need to be respected and understood. And checking their phones frequently is undoubtedly a blow to their self-esteem. In addition, boys also need a certain amount of personal space to relax and adjust their mentality. If a girlfriend always interferes too much with their private space, it can make them feel depressed and uneasy.
Of course, this does not mean that the boys have any secret secrets. Most of the time, they just want to be able to keep a little bit of their space and freedom. If your girlfriend can give them enough trust and respect, I believe they will cherish this relationship even more.
Returning to the story of Xiao Li and Xiao Fang, we can't ** where their future will go. But what we know for sure is that if both parties are not able to build a foundation of trust and respect, then the relationship will not last long.
So, girls, please give your boyfriends some trust and space! Don't always check their phone to test their loyalty. And boys should also cherish their girlfriend's care and love, and use practical actions to prove their loyalty and responsibility. Only in this way can love thrive in trust and respect. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan