Today is Tuesday, February 20, 2024, the 11th day of the first month of the year of the dragon (Year of the Dragon), a traditional festival for fathers-in-law to feast on sons-in-law.
On this day, according to the ancient custom, the father-in-law will invite his son-in-law to the house to gather together to taste food and exchange feelings. This custom has been passed down through history and has become a symbol of family harmony and strong kinship.
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1. The origin and tradition of the 11th day of the first lunar month
The custom of the eleventh day of the first lunar month originated from the ancient patriarchal social structure. At that time, the concept of family was deep, and marriage was not only the union of two people, but also the marriage of two families. The son-in-law plays an important role in the family, and the father-in-law, as the elder of the family, invites the son-in-law to spend the festival together, which is not only a recognition of the son-in-law, but also a wish for a happy marriage for his daughter.
Over time, the custom evolved into a regular family activity. After the group meeting on the first day of the first month and the return to their parents' home on the second day of the first month, the eleventh day of the first month has become the day that sons-in-law look forward to. On this day, the father-in-law will carefully prepare sumptuous dishes, and the son-in-law will enjoy the food while chatting about family affairs and spending quality time together.
2. Preparation and dishes of the feast
The feast at which the father-in-law entertains his son-in-law is often called the "son-in-law's feast". In traditional food culture, the choice of dishes and the way they are cooked have a deep cultural connotation. In order to prepare for this special feast, the father-in-law often starts preparing the ingredients a few days in advance, not only to ensure that the food is fresh and delicious, but also to take into account the nutritional balance and auspiciousness.
In the choice of dishes, the common ones are fish, chicken, shrimp, meat, etc. Fish means that there is more than enough every year; Chickens have the meaning of "good luck"; Shrimp symbolizes "harmony and contentment". Each dish carries the father-in-law's deep expectations and blessings for his son-in-law. At the same time, wine is also an indispensable part of the feast. The father-in-law usually chooses a good wine to drink with his son-in-law, which means family harmony and a happy life.
3. Interaction and emotional exchange during the banquet
In the banquet, in addition to the enjoyment of food, more important is the exchange of emotions. Father-in-law and son-in-law will talk about family affairs, work and life during the banquet. This interaction not only enhances mutual understanding and trust, but also brings the family closer together. The son-in-law will also take this opportunity to express his gratitude to his father-in-law for his dedication to the family and his love for him.
In addition, the father-in-law will also give some gifts to his son-in-law, such as red envelopes, souvenirs, etc., as a blessing and encouragement for their married life. These gifts not only represent material value, but also contain the father-in-law's deep feelings and expectations for his son-in-law.
IV. Conclusion
As a traditional festival, the 11th day of the first lunar month has become more than simple celebration and entertainment. It becomes a time for family reunions, fostering family bonds, and passing on culture.
On this special day, the father-in-law and son-in-law work together to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere, so that every family member can feel the warmth and happiness of home.
As the times have evolved, so has this tradition, but its core values – family harmony and the bonds of affection – will never change ......
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