The emergence of a new phenomenon of gnawing on the elderly? Parents are kept in the dark, are children really good?
With the progress of the times and the changes in the socio-economic environment, many parents find that their children have reached adulthood, but they still seem to be financially and spiritually dependent on their parents, and parents no longer even assume the responsibilities of family and children. That's what people are talking about"New geriatric dependence"Phenomenon. This article will delve into this phenomenon, analyze its causes, and how to deal with it.
i.What is"A new type of old age"？
So-called"New geriatric dependence", refers to the fact that, when a child reaches adulthood, despite having financial means, he does not actively participate in work or other meaningful activities, but chooses to be financially and mentally dependent on his or her parents under various pretexts. This can be manifested in long-term avoidance of work, the pursuit of personal hobbies regardless of family responsibilities, or the receipt of some financial support from parents in the form of household chores. These behaviors all show that children lack a sense of responsibility and independence in adulthood, and it is worth reflecting on the reasons behind them.
ii.Why"A new type of old age"The phenomenon is becoming more and more common?
1) Employment pressure: With the global economic recession and industrial restructuring, the labor market is becoming increasingly competitive. Many young people face employment difficulties and employment discrimination, and cannot find a satisfactory job, so they choose to work"A new type of pension"ways to escape the pressure of employment.
2) Family environment: Family parenting style and family environment may also be responsible"A new type of old man bites"One of the reasons for the phenomenon. Some parents are overprotective of their children and are unwilling to let their children face challenges, depriving their children of opportunities for exercise and development, resulting in their children being unable to be independent and appear as adults"A new type of old man bites"Phenomenon.
3) Lifestyle changes: With the popularity of the internet and the rise of e-commerce, people's lifestyles have changed a lot. Some young people may be addicted to games, social networks, etc. in the online world, and have no actual work and life experience to adapt to changes in society.
iii.How to cope"A new type of old age"Phenomenon.
1) Guide children to establish a correct outlook on employment and career planning: Parents should cultivate their children's sense of responsibility from an early age, let them realize the importance of employment, and help them establish a correct outlook on employment and career planning. At the same time, parents can also provide career guidance and career planning services for their children to help them find suitable jobs and avoid their children becoming adults"A new type of old man"。
2) Strengthen family education: Parents should set an example by guiding their children to learn to think and make decisions independently, so as to improve their children's overall quality. Parents should also let their children feel the care of the family, learn to be grateful, learn to empathize, and let children truly understand the importance of parents in their children's growth.
3) Encourage children to participate in social activities: Parents can encourage their children to participate in social activities, such as volunteering, public welfare activities, etc., so that children can improve their sense of social responsibility and leadership skills in practice, and enhance their self-confidence and independence. At the same time, parents can also encourage their children to step out of their comfort zone and try new challenges and opportunities, so as to cultivate their innovative spirit and practical ability.
4) Establish a support system: ** The society should establish a sound support system to provide more employment opportunities, entrepreneurship support, psychological counseling and other services for young people. ** Through policy guidance and financial support, enterprises can be incentivized to create more employment opportunities, so as to create better conditions for youth employment.
In short,"A new type of piggyback"Phenomenon is an issue that requires the common attention of the whole society. Parents should cultivate their children's sense of responsibility and independence from an early age, and the society should also establish a sound support system to provide more opportunities and support for teenagers. Only through the joint efforts of the whole society can we effectively solve the problem"A new type of gnawing old people"to help young people cherish themselves and make greater contributions to social development.