A new phenomenon of gnawing at the old is quietly emerging, and parents are unaware but showing off their children's potential!
Parents have always been very concerned about their children's education. Even if they are asked to spend a little more money, they are willing, and parents spend a lot of effort on their students when they are young, hoping to lay a good foundation for their children.
However, due to the fact that there are too many college students and the employment situation is severe, there are many students who cannot find a suitable job within a few months after graduation, and finally can only hope to go to graduate school, but it is very difficult.
There are many students who do not hesitate to spend two or three hours in order to pass the time, and simply do not want to go to work, because of this situation"Love the new and hate the old"The gnawing of the old people has gradually begun to show its serious effects.
appeared"A new style of biting"Some parents don't realize it and go around showing off their children's successes.
When students are children, their parents are obliged to pay their expenses, at this time they are not yet able to support themselves, but after graduating from college, students are adults, at this time they have the ability to earn money, and naturally need themselves"Pay"。
However, many students are reluctant to go out to find a job, and they do not go out to look for a job after completing their studies, but eat and drink their parents' at home, which is a typical gnawing old people.
However, because gnawing is too ugly, many students gradually give up the superficial gnawing of the old and become a disguised gnawing of the old, but parents don't know that they are still showing off their children's good grades, which makes people feel very uncomfortable!
Xiao Li was a party to the high school entrance examination last year, because he went to two schools when he graduated, and he didn't choose a good major, so it was difficult to find a job after graduation.
In order to increase their competitiveness, they chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination after graduation, in the initial preparation for the exam, Xiao Li worked very hard, reading every day and night, thinking that he could successfully be admitted to the bank, but he did not expect to fail.
Bruce Lee, who was used to staying at home for a long time, didn't want to go out to work, so he discussed with his parents that he wanted to go to college and chose to go to World War II.
However, in the process of preparing for World War II, Li obviously did not work hard for the first time, and when he was preparing for the exam, he went out with his classmates every day, and he did not review well, which shows that World War II is also difficult to land.
But the parents did not realize that they thought their son was doing a good job and continued to comfort him so that he would not be sad and that they would continue to support him if he fought three more battles.
Many students have deceived their parents, thinking that they are studying hard and making progress, but in fact it is just an excuse that they don't want to go to work"Exams"as an excuse.
Like social pressure, it will also become an excuse to gnaw at the old, because the number of college students is increasing, resulting in the current employment situation is not very good, and the pressure on students is also increasing, many students are very confused because they can't find a job, so they make various excuses for their parents"Squatting at home"。
Some students directly use moral kidnapping to gnaw at the elderly, and some students think that if they don't go out to find a job for a day, their parents have the obligation to support themselves, so they are content to gnaw at the old at home.
After receiving higher education, students should realize that they will become adults after graduating from secondary school, and at that time their parents will no longer have the obligation to support them, and there are many students abroad who need to work to support themselves.
College students should realize the importance of going to school and studying, and even if the current work environment is very stressful, they must learn to start a career in a limited time, and not to live up to their own efforts and parents' expectations.
Summary at the end of the article. Whether college students lie or gnaw at the old, in fact, it is a bad phenomenon, students must be good at thinking, good at behavior in order to be independent, plus parents must also learn to let go, sometimes learning to be ruthless and affectionate is a better way for students.
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