Before the age of 18, this is the first stage of a child's life to experience. After the age of 18, before starting a family, that is the second stage of life that he will experience, and after starting a family, he will have to experience the third stage of life.
Nurturing children, we actually wantShow weakness appropriately, especially in the cultivation of boys, we must learn to show weakness. That is, when the mother is raising a boy, the weaker the mother, the stronger the child, and the stronger the mother, the weaker the child will be in the future. And once the child becomes very vulnerable, he becomes devoid of some sense of strength. One day in the future, when he finds a partner, the pattern of living with this girl will be the same.
That is to say, he is controlled by his mother, and after he loses his power, he will habitually depend. In the end, it feels like he has no power, but in fact, his power has not found a space to play. Everyone needs a sense of spaceThis sense of space will actually allow us all to calm down and finally find the source of our own creation.
For example, when parents and children are together, in fact, only the eyes are there, nothing else is there, and parents only have eyes staring at their children, and there is no other heart or behavior. So when the child has a pointSpatial sense, he will think for himself.
It's as if I give you a blank piece of paper and ask you to draw a picture, and you can draw it when you think about it. But if I give you a painting, and you change it, you may not want to change it, because it has no way to use your own personal imagination.
So all of us must not blindly follow itPreaching will never solve anything。The more you preach your child, the less they take you seriously, and the more you learn to respect your child, the more willing your child will be to open up to you. So we sayConstant accompaniment and correct guidanceThat's what educators should do. We wantSanityland, wantWisdomLooking at all the practical problems we encounter today, the real problems are often not so realistic, and it is the ideas that our minds process that make us feel stressed.
Therefore, preaching is never the category of education, and the category of education will always only do two things, the first thing is to accompanyConstant accompaniment。The second thing isBoot it right
We are actually here all our livesFight monsters to level up to get rewardsAs for whether we have crossed our own obstacles and made ourselves more and more powerful and transparent, it depends on whether we can do it or notRise to the challengeOnly if you can face the difficulties, you can go more smoothly.
If we focus more on the things that make us feel good, we can welcome a whole new version of ourselves. If we make one ourselvesAngry peopleA man who stands up to the skyOur children will also be influenced by our power.