In 2024, it will come to us in the blink of an eye. In the past 2023, as a 42-year-old man, I have experienced debt, unemployment, marital crisis, and now I am alone to raise my elderly mother and son, as well as the daily life of the family, and I am moving forward with a heavy burden.
In the past few years, the market economic environment has undergone earth-shaking changes. Affected by the epidemic and the advent of the post-epidemic era, entrepreneurs in many industries have been forced to shrink and eliminate.
I used to work in the ** department, and in order to ensure the daily life of the masses during the three years of the epidemic, I was also on duty on the front line. It is also because of work, and the support of my family, that I have persevered in the epidemic for three years. Later, I took the opportunity to get the first month near the water, and I was fortunate to invest in some projects with my friends. However, due to the advent of the post-epidemic era, there was no more funds and I could not pay the project normally, resulting in the breakdown of funds. Later, due to the restructuring of the work unit, external employees like me could no longer be in charge of the project, resulting in a complete reduction to a marginal person, who could only get a basic salary every month to support his life.
But how can this salary support his family?You can't even support your children's monthly expenses, let alone anything else. I had no choice but to find a way to do other businesses to increase my income. But before it improved, my wife filed for divorce on the grounds that I was not in agreement with each other and could not see any hope for the future, and before the communication was settled, she completely moved out of the house and handed over my son to me to raise alone, which undoubtedly made my current life worse. For a 42-year-old man, the situation was a heavy blow. At this time, I not only have to take on the responsibility of raising my mother and son, but also face the disappointment of my wife and the crisis of my marriage. The stress of life makes me feel tired and helpless.
However, I only owe money, not life. After all, life has to go on, and my family has to take care of it, so I spend a lot of time learning Internet knowledge, understanding the rules of major platforms, and devoting myself to the field of self-improvement to alleviate the existing dilemma. I hope to share my feelings and experiences with sincerity and enthusiasm, record the bits and pieces of life, and hope that through my efforts and persistence, I can be recognized and supported by everyone.
As evidence, if I get some results through my own efforts, I will share my experience with the same debtors as me and help them slowly get out of the predicament with me.
Come on, debtors!
Start planning for my 2024