Wisdom and cultivation on the Spring Festival wine table
There are some unwritten rules and traditions at the Spring Festival table, and knowing and following them will not only make the whole party more harmonious and enjoyable, but also avoid some unnecessary embarrassment and conflict. Here are some tips to help you better cope with the Chinese New Year drinking party:
Respect the organizers: If you don't organize your own drinking party, it's best not to take the initiative to toast and clear the customs. Respect the organizer's arrangement and avoid disrupting the rhythm. A well-timed offer: Try not to offer a drink until you have served no more than four dishes. Let the guests enjoy the food first, and then gradually enter the atmosphere of drinking. Clarify the responsibility to pay: If it is a leader's personal banquet, don't take the initiative to pay for it. Generally speaking, whoever organizes the game pays for it, which is a well-established rule. Pay attention to the occasion: At an important drinking party, even if you feel hungry, don't eat too often. Such parties usually have other important issues or purposes, rather than just eating. The order of the toasts: When toasting, do not "jump people" so as not to offend people. Toasts can be made in a clockwise or counterclockwise order as a sign of respect and fairness. Keep it real: At the wine table, don't expect everyone to be genuine. Some people may tell lies even when they are drunk, and trusting others too much can be a loss. Respect the pouring order: When pouring wine for others, you should pour it first to an elder or a distinguished person as a sign of respect and courtesy. Eating etiquette: When drinking, do not move the first chopsticks and do not pinch the last piece of meat. It is a traditional table manner, which shows respect and gratitude to the host. Avoid bragging: At the wine table, don't brag or exaggerate. If someone else brags, you can choose to avoid it, but don't expose it in public to avoid embarrassment. Respect for leadership: If you are not a leader, it is best not to toast more than one person when toasting, but you can toast more than one person. This is a sign of respect and humility for leadership. Respond positively to invitations: When a leader privately asks if he or she has time to attend a drinking party, he should respond positively with "yes" unless there are special circumstances (such as family emergencies). This reflects a respectful and cooperative attitude towards leadership. Keep a low profile: When clinking glasses with others, even if you have a high status or high morality, keep a low profile and deliberately lower your glass. This exemplifies humility and respect for others. Avoid alcohol persuasion: Under no circumstances should alcohol be advised. This is a sign of respect for others and oneself, and it can also avoid accidents and disputes caused by alcohol persuasion. Be cautious in what you say and do: After drinking, keep your mouth in check and avoid making inappropriate remarks or divulging sensitive information. Some people may take advantage of the opportunity to talk or use your drunken gaffes to achieve ulterior motives. Stay awake: The person who toasts you frequently at the wine table may not really respect you, but want you to get drunk. Keep a clear head and avoid gaffes or embarrassments caused by excessive drinking. Avoid talking about sensitive topics: Don't talk about work or other sensitive topics when you're sober, and don't talk about personal matters or confidential information when you're drunk. This helps to maintain a good atmosphere and relationships. Respect the choices of others: Don't force others to drink or engage in activities you don't like. Respecting the choices and wishes of others is the foundation of good interpersonal relationships. Be modest: Drink in moderation and not in excess. Excessive alcohol consumption can not only affect one's own health and safety, but it can also cause distress or inconvenience to others. The Spring Festival Wine Table is a platform to showcase personal cultivation and social wisdom. By following some unwritten rules and traditions, we can make the whole party more harmonious and enjoyable, and also avoid some unnecessary awkwardness and conflict. At the same time, it is also necessary to keep a clear head and be cautious in words and deeds to maintain your image and reputation.
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