What do you think of today's hot spots
AttentionBrother Poison
Decoding the rules of the workplace
Author: Brother Poison & Lian Lizhi.
*: Brother Poison (ID: jokerdjt).
The world is a giant tomato**
Recently, there has been a popular stalk on the Internet.,Everyone laughs and talks about the world is a huge tomato**.,It turns out that there will really be a variety of characters.,I used to think that they were all made up all kinds of gorgeous plots to attract people.。
But we have forgotten what we often say, that is, art is the best in reality.
I don't know why, when I read these contents in **, I will only smile contemptuously, and then fantasize that I am the hero and heroine in it; But when these episodes really appear in real life, that heart-wrenching feeling gradually becomes real.
I really answered that sentence: my failure is uncomfortable, but witnessing the success of others makes my heart ache even more.
It's also a world, why should others dominate life, and I can only be an NPC with a random fate, many people swipe their phones in bed and make a sharp pop.
I turned over in a fit of anger, only to find that the charging cable was shorter, and I had to turn over and go back, I was really laughed at by myself.
Some of you call yourself a worker, and some people call themselves cows and horses, I see the meaning of ridicule, but behind the ridicule is not a silent sigh for fate.
Why don't you say it's a struggle, please, in addition to the beautiful points in your dreams, where else can you be yourself presumptuously, and to tell the truth, the poorer you are, the easier it is to have nightmares, I really can't experience the happiness of the rich, and I have a lot of troubles for the poor.
But when this meme became popular on the Internet, I was already an adult who could regulate my emotions very well, and frankly I didn't like it, and even hated it a little.
It's not that he's vulgar, that's not it, but I think everyone will often feel regret in comparison, because there is always a gap when there is a comparison.
Originally, it was just self-deprecation, but after slowly pondering carefully, I found that this is indeed the case, people will always have shortcomings, and if you stare at that part, you will gradually forget the original fireworks of life.
The account does not have to be calculated too clearly
People don't have to live too clearly
Chinese people like to compete with themselves, and recently came to the conclusion that it sounds good is called "roll", and the ugly thing is actually "masochism".
There are really some people on the Internet, of course, I don't mean everyone, they will habitually exaggerate their suffering, and at the same time they will be proud of their hardships, while complaining that life has not treated them well, and on the other hand, they will take their love and dedication as a rare honor, and they will also be accompanied by the young people who are "happy in time".
One of my most real feelings is that a friend recently went to the north to play during the Chinese New Year, and he said that Harbin is really hot, and he also wants to go there to experience the local customs.
A couple, both of whom are engaged in the service industry, usually have little vacation, which leads to the saving of holidays, and there are several days of annual leave.
A few days ago, I chatted with him and was still exchanging strategies, and I also found relevant information on the Internet, and I was happy for him, in his words, the service industry was very tiring, and finally had the opportunity to be a consumer and let others "serve themselves".
Seeing that there are not a few days left, today he mentioned whether the ticket was bought or not, who knew that he said that the original plan may have to change, because he did not expect that the consumption would be so high.
From the central part of China to the north, two air tickets are 6000+ round-trip, 1000+ food and lodging, and you also need to prepare equipment for the winter, and these are all one-time consumption.
After listening to it, I was actually silent for a long time, and my first reaction was the same as him, thinking that it was really expensive to go out.
But I'm probably different from him, I will ask myself if I want it before I decide, if I don't think it's worth 10,000 yuan less, if I think I want it, then it's actually just a month's salary for two people.
What holiday consumption is expensive, there are many people, and the experience is not good, these are actually just excuses, because these things are inevitable, and there are not a few people who travel on holidays, and many people can only go out on holidays.
Every time I have a big purchase, I comfort myself: it's not every day, but it's only once in life.
It's not that you don't know the so-called "cost performance", but if you take things too seriously, then you will lose their original meaning.
It's not yet falling, and I can still sleep
"Young people" has gradually evolved into an adjective, no longer the demarcation of age, but more of a mentality, many people in their twenties and thirties have lost the pursuit of life, but are fifty or sixty years old grandparents who are about to retire are relaxed.
They might say that it is natural, because they don't have to worry about anything.
So you are in the prime of life, what are you worried about, are you worried about your ordinary life, or are you worried about your desires.
A person who does his duty will not be rich, but he will not be reduced to nothing, which is my view all along.
People always say that saving money can save an emergency, but my money has slipped away in another way, leaving three highs and obesity, and my little wishes, not even a few times, of course, I am also lucky, did not encounter any major changes in life.
So don't punish yourself with those extreme examples on the Internet, ** there is another natural disaster, and someone suddenly becomes seriously ill.
Don't look at the beauty of the Internet and don't presuppose the coming of suffering, looking around us, there are still many people who spend their lives in peace and stability.
Excessive "delayed gratification", like our previous generation, is reluctant to do anything, the money is left until the end of the depreciation, the clothes are left until the end can not keep up with the trend, and the minor illness is left until the end and dragged into a major illness, so why bother.
Just take the road under your feet, the next step will naturally be the next road for us to see, and who of us has the ability to see through the future.
If the money in your hand can't change the big thing, first meet the small wishes of the moment, there are always regrets in life, but there is really no need to regret everywhere, why bother to let yourself live the most wronged at the most beautiful age.