I don't know when a joke began to circulate on the Internet, called "Professionally helping my brother for 20 years, once back to before liberation." With the development of society, the word "Brother Demon" began to appear in front of everyone with a unique attitude, but judging from the paragraph, it seems that the ending is not ideal, shouldn't brothers and sisters really help each other? In fact, what people dislike is never the mutual help between brothers and sisters, but the blind giving, blind help. What is blindness? From the sad experience of this takeaway brother, everyone can understand. The takeaway brother Xiao Zhang, who comes and goes in the wind and rain every month, is reluctant to buy even a bottle of mineral water, because 8,000 yuan has been handed over to his wife, just to make his wife live comfortably and make her feel secure about her married life. 
Xiao Zhang and his wife Lili are free to love and get married, when the love is strong, the romantic vow of "the mountains are edgeless, the heaven and the earth are together, and only then dare to be with the king" is not less, but marriage is not a love that can be full of water, Xiao Zhang obviously knows this truth, so he is desperate to make money while he is young, and wants to buy a house and a car so that his wife can live a good life. However, a text message shattered his beautiful blueprint, and the text message read: Brother, is it enough to transfer 5000 to you this month, I heard my parents say that you are in love, not enough to talk to my sister. This text message was originally sent by Lili to her brother, but it was sent to Xiao Zhang's mobile phone by mistake. Seeing this information, Xiao Zhang had mixed feelings in his heart, I did everything for you, but you spent a lot of money for my brother, am I just an ATM? And I'm afraid this is not the first time, he has been wondering why there is always no savings at home. 
Before Xiao Zhang and Lili got married, the two agreed that Lili would be in charge of the finances, and after marriage, Lili was unwilling to go out to work, so she had been working as a full-time wife at home, which Xiao Zhang had no objection to, in his opinion, if a big man can't even support his wife, it is a shame. The two have been married for a few years, but they have no children, and the living expenses are not large, if they are frugal, it is not a problem to save four or five thousand a month, even if Lili spends a lot on clothes and cosmetics, it will not be able to save a penny, but the bank card at home is really empty, he also asked Lili, but Lili always prevaricated, saying that she would save a little next month. If Lili told him directly that his brother-in-law was in difficulty and needed help, he would not be stingy. But when an adult falls in love, he has to rely on others for relief, is this kind of care really good for his younger brother? The younger brother who is so indulged and spoiled, it is effortless to make money, he will not know that it is not easy to make money, and naturally he will not have an enterprising heart, a man who is not diligent in his limbs and depends on his family to support him, and women who are a little more independent in their thinking are not looked down upon, unless the woman is as accustomed to getting something for nothing as he is. 
Then the final result is that Xiao Zhang not only has to raise his brother-in-law, but also his family, they will be like parasites, sucking the hard work of **. Will the brother-in-law's family be grateful for their efforts? I don't think so, because people who are used to asking will not know how to be grateful, and when Xiao Zhang has no use value, they will only kick him away, and then persuade my sister to marry a rich one again. But after my sister can no longer provide them with funds for pleasure, she will also be abandoned, there are countless such plots in TV dramas, and the reality is often more cruel than TV dramas, which is one of the reasons why people hate brainless brothers. If Lili knew how to measure, the marriage between the two could still be saved, but how did Lili reply to Xiao Zhang, she did not reflect, but accused Xiao Zhang: You have changed, what did you say when you got married, the money belongs to me, what happened to me giving my brother a little? It can be seen that Lili is unprincipled in this matter, and Xiao Zhang is also cold, and many netizens persuade Xiao Zhang to leave this strange family quickly. 
Although Lili is justifiable, but legally, her approach is inappropriate, if Xiao Zhang applies for divorce, after verifying the transfer records of Lili to her brother over the years, the money can be recovered. Article 17 of the original Marriage Law stipulates that wages and bonuses refer to the salaries, bonus income, various welfare policy income, subsidies, etc. of one or both parties during the existence of the marital relationship, and the following property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife. At the same time, it also stipulates that the husband or wife has equal rights to dispose of the property jointly owned by the husband and wife. Where the disposition of the joint property of the husband and wife is made due to the needs of daily life, either party has the right to make a decision, but if an important decision is made on the disposition of the joint property of the husband and wife not due to the needs of daily life, the husband and wife shall negotiate on an equal footing and reach a consensus. If one of the spouses transfers the joint property to the relatives of both parties or other interested third parties, the unilateral disposition shall be invalid if the third party knew or should have known that the disposition was made without the consent of the other party. 
Lili transferred most of the joint property to her younger brother without her husband's consent for her younger brother to squander, which is a non-daily living expense and seriously harms the interests of the joint property of the husband and wife. Article 222 of the Civil Procedure Law stipulates that: "If the person subject to enforcement fails to perform the obligations determined in the legal documents in accordance with the enforcement notice, the people's court has the right to withhold and withdraw the part of the income that the person subject to enforcement should perform the obligations to prompt him to perform his obligations within a limited period of time." If the performance is still not fulfilled after the time limit, the income can be withdrawn and delivered to the executor. If Lili is still unrepentant and insists on supporting her brother, what awaits her is not only the broken family, but also the future with no way forward, after all, no one wants to work hard all their lives to make wedding dresses for others.