At noon, Hao Xueling (pseudonym) had dinner with her female colleagues, and her father called ** again. The father asked with concern: "Girl, the demolition money will be in my hand in two days, when will you have time to come back, and I will give you the card directly when the time comes." Hao Xueling refused: "Dad, I think this matter will wait, you take the money first, I want to discuss it with my husband again." When the father heard this, he thought that the young couple had quarreled, and asked for a long time. Hao Xueling patiently comforted her father, reassured her father, and fell into deep thought after hanging up. The female colleague smiled and asked, "Your house is such a good thing, why are you still sad?" This female colleague is a fellow countryman with Hao Xueling, and the relationship is not bad, Hao Xueling asked her to dinner this time, just to let her stop talking about the demolition. After all, her husband Wang Liwei (pseudonym) is also very close to their company, and Hao Xueling doesn't want her husband to know about it now. After work in the evening, Hao Xueling came to an old classmate's clinic, and she wanted to ask the old classmate to help her lie to her husband. Then the old classmate took the car home with Hao Xueling. 
Tonight, Hao Xueling is going to play a wonderful drama just to test her husband's attitude! After two years of marriage, the young couple has no plans to have a baby, it used to be to make money, but now Hao Xueling no longer has much confidence to insist on this marriage, and it coincides with the demolition of her hometown, she dare not tell the truth to her husband. She wants to lie and test it, so she doesn't hesitate to let her old classmates lie to help. After arriving home, Wang Liwei was stunned when he saw his wife's old classmate, and when he heard the old classmate finish talking about his wife's condition, and learned that he was very sick and needed long-term chemotherapy, which might cost hundreds of thousands of yuan, Wang Liwei was silent. Hao Xueling said: "Husband, I don't want to die, we have been together for so long and have been married for two years, you won't leave me alone, right?" She deliberately said such things, pretending to be weak, but also to give her husband a chance, trying to arouse his inner feelings. Hao Xueling was nervous, and she didn't want to believe that her husband was really a ruthless and indifferent person. Wang Liwei was silent for a while, thanked his old classmate, and then invited him home, saying that he wanted to discuss it with his wife. Hao Xueling was a little surprised, she thought that Wang Liwei had changed her mind and wanted to talk to her about how to treat the disease, but she didn't expect that after the old classmate left, Wang Liwei showed his true face. He said: "I'm not a ruthless person, you can cure your disease first, use your own savings first, and then talk about ...... when it's not enough."Lingling, it's not that I'm selfish, I also have to think about myself, you said that if I spend my blood to find the best hospital for you, if it doesn't work, I will also go bankrupt, and I can't afford this crime! ”
Hao Xueling asked, "So you mean, you're going to watch me die?" Or do you want to divorce me? Wang Liwei said: "I mean, let's AA, you only have two or three years to live, what to toss, there is no difference." Hao Xueling trembled with anger and asked: "But the doctor said that as long as you go to a tertiary hospital to find the best doctor, the success rate of surgery is at least half!" Even if I'm really hopeless, can't you be nicer to me in just two or three years? Also AA? Wang Liwei said: "Look at the point, you first spend money to try it yourself, and then talk about it." After that, Wang Liwei went back to the study to play games. Hao Xueling sat alone in the living room, and her heart was very broken! She secretly sighed in her heart: This Wang Liwei is really an unreliable person! If there are old and young people in the family waiting for him to feed, it will be okay, if this disease is certain to die, even if you really give up**, husband and wife, isn't it good to make your wife live comfortably in the last two years? It's unbelievable that he actually proposed AA. Hao Xueling sighed, and then gave her father a **. Dad, don't give me the demolition money, this man is unreliable, I can't tell when I will get divorced. ”
In fact, Hao Xueling's father-in-law, as a father-in-law, is already very sincere, and his wife has passed away for several years, so he is very caring for his daughter and is more polite to his son-in-law. Every time my father has a benefit, he thinks about the little couple and hopes that they will live a good life. He got 3.2 million compensation for the demolition of his hometown house this time, he didn't keep a penny, and wanted to give it all to his daughter, so that they could use it to buy a school district house, and the rest of the money was used to raise a baby, so that he could work hard for a few years less, and now he can prepare for pregnancy. But the father didn't know that his daughter had not been happy in the past two years. Hao Xueling found that Wang Liwei became more and more materialistic and selfish after marriage, and in just two years, his true form was revealed. Hao Xueling regretted it very much, she always wanted to divorce, but she always felt that it was a trivial matter, her father would not support her, and her husband would never agree to divorce. Under the influence of various reasons, she did not get divorced. Unexpectedly, this time she "took strong medicine" to test her husband, but let her husband completely expose his thoughts on the big issue of life and death. It was obvious that Wang Liwei did not have even the most basic sympathy for Hao Xueling, and he was not even surprised to hear that his wife was seriously ill. Hao Xueling asked her father not to squeak, move to this city, buy a medium-priced pension house, collect the money, and retire with peace of mind. As for the future, she can only refuse to have children, and then find a suitable opportunity to divorce. 
A good marriage needs an emotional foundation, an economic foundation, and a communication foundation. Marriage needs to be managed and maintained, and husband and wife need to find a proper way to get along through communication, and gradually establish a good state in order to have trust and respect. It is clear that the man is not doing anything valuable to the marriage at all, but is eroding the woman's trust. The two have become husband and wife, but he is in great contrast with before marriage, which will make people wonder if he has been disguising himself, and the woman naturally does not dare to tell him about the big financial events. Between husband and wife, it is also very sad to come to this point. Such a marriage cannot last unless someone is willing to suffer. 
So when we are looking for a suitable partner, we must communicate deeply, understand each other's values, and don't look at each other through a "filter" because we love each other, and ignore those things that are obviously wrong. The most fearful thing about getting married is not that something happens after marriage, but that something happens before marriage and you deliberately pretend not to see it! The emotional foundation is broken, and even the economy and communication will have problems, and the marriage will inevitably collapse, so I still hope that everyone can seize the opportunity before getting married, don't fall in love, and get married regardless of all kinds of problems.