Marriage should be a stage that everyone has to go through in their lives, and if they don't get married when they reach the marriageable age, even if they are not in a hurry, their parents and family will urge them. In a situation like this, many older young people may feel deeply, especially when the Spring Festival is approaching, and it is the most violent period for urging marriage, although it is very repulsive, but there is no way. As we all know, one or two months after the New Year, it is the peak season of blind dates in rural areas, as long as you are not married or have no partner, you will be pulled to go on a blind date, and you just want to solve the lifelong event as soon as possible. But on the issue of blind date, older young people in rural areas do not have much choice, generally as long as the girl has no opinion, there is a high probability that it will be, and the reason is that their own conditions are poor. 
There is a guy in Hebei who married someone he didn't like through a blind date, and on the day of the wedding, he didn't smile at all, his face was full of sadness, and no one knew what he was thinking in his heart. It is understood that the guy is only in his early 30s, because his own conditions are not very good, and his parents can't help, he can't marry his daughter-in-law for a long time, and the family is also anxious. The matchmaker helped introduce the girls nearby, but most of them felt that his conditions were not good, and there was no follow-up after chatting, and he went on blind dates repeatedly for several years, and the last one did not succeed. Seeing that his son is getting older and older, and he has no daughter-in-law in his 30s, his parents directly lowered their requirements, even if the woman is divorced, it is acceptable to bring a girl to marry. 
Later, the bride was introduced, the woman was 29 years old, and the age difference between the two was not much, but the face was not very beautiful, and the young man wanted to refuse, but was persuaded by his parents to agree. The bride's family has no requirements, they can live together in the countryside, and they don't regard the RV as a mandatory requirement, but they still want a dowry of 160,000 yuan, and they bluntly want to give their daughter a guarantee. Statements like this often appear in young people, but I didn't expect the woman's parents to think of this layer, and in the end, the groom's family pieced it together, or did it end the marriage? Maybe he really doesn't like it in his heart, when he gets married, the groom writes dissatisfaction on his face, and he doesn't smile and has a sad face, and he can't see any joy, so he puts on a bitter gourd face. 
It turns out that the reason why the groom will retreat to the second best place is mainly due to the original family, there is a younger brother and a younger sister in the family, and his parents raise three sisters, and they have no savings at all. I really can't marry well, and in the end I can only accept this marriage, and the woman has no problems in other aspects, but she seems a little more honest, and finally achieves this beautiful marriage. Someone at the scene filmed this scene and posted it on the Internet, but I didn't expect this ** to be popular, netizens discussed a lot, and some netizens said that it was better to be single than to marry such a woman. In fact, such an idea should be a common problem for most young people, if they can't meet their favorite object, they would rather not get married, and they will not be willing to find someone to start a family. But then again, when people reach a certain age, they may be unable to help themselves, and the pressure from the world or parents will make many people succumb. Especially in rural areas, there is too much gossip from neighbors, and young people may not feel it outside, and parents can't stand it at home, and finally put pressure on their children. Chinese-style parents urge marriage, most of them have no reason to talk about, it doesn't matter who you marry, it doesn't matter if you are happy after marriage, the point is to get married, even if you are married and divorced, you can't get married. There are also some parents who are even more outrageous, the end of their urging to marry is no bottom line, as long as it is a person of the opposite sex, they feel that there is no problem, it is better than being single and unable to find a spouse.