There is a couple of lovers, when the woman and her husband are in love, the husband always gives the money to the woman for safekeeping. He said that if he didn't let the woman keep the money, he would spend it recklessly, and hoped that the woman could help him get rid of this problem. At first, the woman was reluctant, but after her husband insisted several times, she finally accepted the offer and began to keep the money for him.
Every time the husband paid his salary, he handed over the money to the woman for safekeeping, and only gave him one or two hundred yuan of pocket money. The woman felt that the money was too little, but the husband insisted that if there was more, he would spend it indiscriminately. Slowly, the husband got used to giving the money to the woman, and the woman got used to keeping the money.
One day, her husband suddenly conjured up a ring. He immediately proposed to the woman, who was surprised that she did not give her husband much money. The husband explained that every time the woman gave him pocket money, he would save it and buy a ring. In this way, not only did he not spend money indiscriminately, but he also bought a wedding ring for the woman, which is a very good thing.
He asked the woman if she would like to marry him, and the woman happily agreed, and the two got married. After getting married, the woman proposed to give all the money to her husband for safekeeping, after all, he made the most of the money. However, the husband refused, and he wanted the woman to keep the money, believing that the woman was more suitable than him.
He said that over the years, when they were in love, he had been giving the money to the woman for safekeeping, and the woman had saved a large amount of money, and if they continued to keep it, their lives would be more secure. So the woman continued her own path of safekeeping, each time her husband gave her one or two hundred dollars as before, and asked the woman again when there was no money.
Until one day, the husband found that he did not have enough money, and he hurriedly ran to the woman. The woman was sitting on the couch enjoying her food. The husband turned the two bags inside out of his pocket, proving that he really didn't have a penny left. Then he began to dance the swan dance, and walked towards the woman like a graceful swan.
When the woman saw this, she was amused by her husband. The husband is usually a funny and humorous person, but this time his way of asking for money is even more unique, which is really a unique way for Sichuan and Chongqing men to ask for money. The woman took out a dozen pocket money from her pocket and handed it to her husband. The husband jumped up for joy, said that he was going to hurry up and buy groceries for the woman, and went out. The woman sat on the sofa eating watermelon with a smile, recalling the bits and pieces after they got married, and felt that she was really lucky to marry such a husband who cared about her in every way.
Aunt Li's opinion: The reason why a woman is willing to keep money for her husband and trust him is that this arrangement gives her husband a chance to change his spending habits. By handing over pocket money to the woman, the husband is able to avoid overspending and splurging and better manage his finances. In addition, the husband can also save pocket money to achieve unexpected surprises, such as buying a wedding ring, showing his sincerity and dedication to the woman.
Uncle Bai's view: The problem with women keeping money for their husbands is that this overemphasis on unilateral control of finances can lead to the husband's economic dependence on women and unequal economic relations. While the husband shows honesty and self-discipline, it doesn't mean that he is competent enough for financial decisions. Women should work with their husbands to make decisions and manage family finances in order to achieve fairer and more robust financial planning. In addition, relying too much on women to manage pocket money may deprive husbands of opportunities and the possibility of developing their personal finances.
From a legal point of view, this story involves legal issues such as the custody of property, the management of matrimonial property, and the rights and interests. The following are the legal opinions and legal terms in relation to this:
1.Regarding the custody of property: The custody of property refers to the act of entrusting property to another person for safekeeping. In this story, the woman is the custodian of her husband's money. According to Article 132 of the Contract Law of the People's Republic of China, a property custody contract refers to a contract in which the custodian receives the property of the consignor and properly keeps and returns the property in accordance with the requirements of the consignor. As a custodian, a woman is required to fulfill the duty of safe custody and ensure the safety of the property.
2.With regard to matrimonial property: According to Articles 16 and 19 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, the property acquired by the husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship, including wages, bonuses, business income, etc., shall be the joint property of the husband and wife. The money and property in the custody of the woman belong to the joint property of the husband and wife, and the husband has joint management and control over this part of the property.
3.Regarding the management of joint property of husband and wife: According to article 27 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, both husband and wife have the right to jointly manage the joint property of husband and wife, and if necessary, one party or both parties may agree that one party shall manage it. In the story, the husband chooses to have the woman manage the joint property, which is an agreement between the husband and wife on the basis of free will, in accordance with the law.
4.Regarding the protection of the rights and interests of the husband and wife in the joint property: According to article 24 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, the income, disposal, bequest and assumption of joint debts of the joint property of the husband and wife shall be agreed upon by the husband and wife through consultation. If one of the spouses disposes of the joint property without the consent of the other party, the other party has the right to demand the return and bear the liability for damages. In the story, the husband and the woman agreed that the woman had custody and management of the joint property, which met the requirements of the law.
5.On the relationship and rights of the couple: The husband and wife in this story have a special financial arrangement, that is, the woman keeps the joint property of the husband and wife. This is an agreement between the parties on the basis of the feelings of the couple and does not violate the law. Mutual assistance, understanding and support between husband and wife are essential to maintaining family harmony and stability.