In the adult world, there is rarely a word for relaxation.
The world is complex, everyone is experiencing different challenges and difficulties, some people can survive the difficulties, and some people are struggling and wandering in the midst of difficulties.
Those who have successfully survived the wind and rain, the road of life is like a clear sky after dawn, more and more broad and open; And those who fail to resist the pressure will falter and struggle in the journey of life.
In the past, we may have had moments of fragility and fragility, but as long as we stick to our faith in the face of adversity and move forward bravely, we will eventually forge an invincible armor. In this world, there is never good luck that comes out of thin air, and only by virtue of the courage to overcome obstacles and forge ahead can you win the gift of life.
The word "boil" carries hope and possibility, which means that everything is possible to be reborn in nirvana; On the other hand, if you can't bear the suffering, you may put all possibilities on the shelf.
No one will be spared by fate
Many times, we often indulge in lamenting the injustice of fate, envy the life of others, and feel as if we are the most unfortunate existence in the world. But is that really the case?
In fact, fate is like a mirror of justice, which is not biased against everyone, and no one is immune to the baptism of their suffering. The point is that when faced with the tempering of fate, everyone's coping style and choices are different.
We all know the importance of perseverance for personal growth, but even if we understand this, most of us are still unable to cope with the pain because it is a severe and difficult spiritual trial.
People often yearn for the sudden enlightenment of the willows and flowers, but they are unwilling to bear the hardships and struggles of the mountains and rivers. We only see the shining side of other people's lives, but we ignore the hard work behind them.
When you feel that you are being relentlessly whipped by fate, you do not know that others may be going through a more severe test, but you have not seen it.
Life is indeed a difficult and tortuous journey, some roads are destined for you to trek alone, although the road is full of thorns and bumps, but as long as you are unswerving, you will be able to break through the haze and welcome the clear sky that belongs to you.
The famous host Lu Yu wrote profoundly in his book "Chance Encounter":
Regardless of our status, we have all passed or are passing through the darkest hour of our lives, a long, dark, cold, and hopeless tunnel. ”
The more adversity we face, the more we should strive for self-improvement and move forward bravely, rather than bowing to life and compromising with it. Only in this way can we truly write a wonderful chapter of our own life.
Get through it, and life will be more exciting
We have all struggled with the bitterness of life, you and I and the people around us have complained helplessly, but after complaining, does life stop there? The answer is obviously not, and we need to be brave and face it calmly, because there is no other way.
If a person lacks perseverance to survive the hardships of life, then it may be difficult for him to truly appreciate the wonder and magnificence of life.
It is true that no one wants to walk alone in the dark, and they all want to bask in the light. However, reality does not shift due to personal will, and instead of painfully escaping, it is better to choose to face it bravely and meet the challenge with a more positive attitude.
When you have built up enough courage to face adversity, the darkness can no longer frighten you. When you firmly believe in the existence of light, it will come as promised. Life is long, when the backer eventually declines, relying on others will inevitably have a day of separation, and only relying on yourself is the most reliable. As the writer Ma Weidu once profoundly pointed out:
Throughout our lives, we will encounter difficulties in our lives, whether it is physical, psychological, or environmental. The ups and downs in the heart must be overcome by oneself, and no matter how much help others give, the decisive force to finally overcome this hurdle always comes from oneself. ”
When suffering envelops your world like a dark cloud, endure it and get through it all, without indulging in complaining or giving up. As long as you work hard and work hard, that piece of light will be waiting for you ahead.
It's hard to get through, but it's also cool
Some people are convinced that the road needs to be measured step by step, and the bitterness needs to be tasted by hand, and only after the grinding of cramps and peeling can the transformation be realized, and there is no shortcut to follow. I couldn't agree more. In times of hardship, we should not retreat and run away, let alone blindly pursue the so-called shortcuts, because that can often be the longest and most tortuous journey in the world.
In a person's life, there will always be a period of helplessness and challenge, which makes people feel lost in the unknown future, looking forward to the help of nobles, but in the end they will understand that the real nobleman is the tenacious and determined to move forward.
It's not scary to be in a trough, it's the loss of courage and determination to climb the peak. When you choose to give up on yourself, the whole world seems to leave you with it. On the contrary, as long as you can persevere through this difficult time, the dawn of hope will surely dawn.
In fact, there is no fear of short-term darkness, as long as there is light in our hearts, the road ahead will eventually be illuminated and lead us forward.
The poet Rabindranath Tagore once affectionately said, "There is no need to be anxious, the best things often come quietly without you noticing." What we have to do is to hold on to hope, go all out, and wait for the beautiful moment to come. ”
Looking forward to the future, I hope that everyone can find their own light in the dark night of life, and can steadily walk through the ups and downs in the journey of life, go forward bravely, fearlessly, sing triumphant songs, and welcome the colorful rainbow of life that belongs to them.