There are many infatuated lovers in the world, focusing on feelings, but ignoring the actual conditions, perhaps, only feelings are supreme in their values, and they are also priceless, and they can even die for feelings. This kind of metaphysical value makes many people sigh and sigh, and they are ashamed of themselves.
Wang Xianzhi is an infatuated lover, married his cousin Xi Daomao, has similar interests, and spends a dark time in life together. However, he is talented and is taken by the divorced princess Xin'an. The emperor decreed that Wang Xianzhi should take a break from his original partner Xi Daomao and marry Princess Xin'an. In order to refuse to marry the princess, Wang Xianzhi burned his feet with wormwood, leaving him disabled for life, but he still couldn't get rid of the tricks of fate, and finally divorced Xi Daomao and married Princess Xin'an. Xi Daomao did not remarry, and died of depression at the age of thirty. Wang Xianzhi lived to be forty-three years old, and when he was dying, he still remembered Xi Daomao and was haunted by the divorce. When Fang Xuanling was seriously ill, he persuaded his young wife Lu to remarry. After hearing this, Lu Shi cried, and took a knife to gouge out an eyeball to show Fang Xuanling, expressing his emotional loyalty, and would rather be disfigured than marry. After Fang Xuanling recovered from his illness, Tang Taizong wanted to reward Fang Xuanling's concubine, but Fang Xuanling refused. Li Shimin knew that he was afraid of guilt, so he called the Lu family to the palace and asked the eunuch to serve a pot of "poisonous wine", saying that the Lu family did not accept the concubine, so he would drink which pot of poisonous wine. Lu Shi was not afraid and drank a pot of "poisonous wine" in one go. It turned out that the pot of "poisonous wine" was vinegar, and Li Shimin only did it to test her. So, the allusion of jealousy has **.
Su Shi's wife, Wang Fu, married at the age of sixteen and often listened to Su Shi's conversations with guests behind the screen. After the guests left, Wang Fu pointed out that Su Shi's inadequacy in dealing with people and things was regarded as a virtuous helper. However, Wang Fu died of illness at the age of twenty-seven, and ten years later, Su Shi saw her in a dream, and wrote a poem after waking up: "Ten years of life and death are boundless, don't think about it, and forget it." Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to talk about desolation. Even if you don't know each other, your face is dusty, and your temples are like frost. At night, I suddenly returned to my hometown, and I was dressing up in the small window. There are no words for each other, only a thousand tears. It is expected that the intestines will be broken every year, the bright moon night, and the short Matsuoka. "The love is sincere, it can only be said that when Wang Fu was alive, Su Shi had a deep love for her. After she died, Su Shi still remembered it. The patriotic poet Lu You of the Southern Song Dynasty was very affectionate, and Tang Wan'er, the daughter of his uncle's family, was a childhood sweetheart, and the two had no guesses, and they became husband and wife. However, Lu You's mother interfered in their marriage, thinking that Tang Wan'er and Lu You's grace** prevented Lu You from gaining fame. Under the compulsion of his mother, Lu You had no choice but to divorce Tang Wan'er. When the two of them met again, they met in Shen Yuan. Lu You was admitted to the Jinshi, but he was manipulated by Qin Hui and was not hired, so he went to Shen Yuan to play and met Tang Wan'er by chance. At that time, Tang Wan'er was already Zhao Shicheng's wife. Lu You remembered the love scene in the past, and couldn't help but feel sad, and wrote on the wall of the garden, "Red crisp hands, yellow vine wine, spring palace wall willows all over the city; The east wind is evil, the joy is thin, a sorrow, a few years away, wrong, wrong, wrong. Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and silky; The peach blossoms fall, the idle pond pavilion, although the mountain league is there, the brocade book is difficult to trust, Mo, Mo, Mo. Tang Wan'er and a poem: "The world is thin, people are evil, and the rain sends the dusk flowers to fall; The evening air is dry, the tears are left, and if you want to pass on your heart, you can lean on the oblique bar alone, difficult, difficult, difficult. People are different, today is not yesterday, and the sick soul is often like a swing; The horn is cold, the night is cold, I am afraid of being asked, I pretend to be happy with tears, hide, hide, hide. Tang Wan'er died at the age of thirty-five, and Lu You returned to his hometown when he was seventy-five years old, and went to Shen Yuan to reminisce about the scene of that year.
Nalan Rongruo, known as the "first man of the Manchu Qing Dynasty", married Lu Shi, the daughter of Lu Xingzu, the governor of Liangguang. Three years after their marriage, Lu died of dystocia. Nalan Rongruo was deeply affected and violated the etiquette system, put Lu's coffin in the Shuanglin Zen Temple, parked it for more than a year, and often went to the Zen Temple to accompany his wife's dead soul. During that time, he wrote a large number of eulogies, among which "Picking Mulberries and Xie Family Courtyard Remnants Change" wrote: "Xie Family Courtyard Remnants Stand, Yansu Carved Beams." The monthly silver wall does not distinguish the fragrance of the flowers. This situation has become a self-contained memory, and there are scattered mandarin ducks. The rain is slightly cool, and I dreamed of it eleven years ago. There is also "Huanxi Sha, Who Reads the West Wind and Cools Alone": "Whoever reads the West Wind is cool alone, Xiao Xiao Huangye closes the window, and ponders the past and stands in the sun." was surprised by the wine and slept heavily, and the gambling books were consumed with the fragrance of tea, which was only ordinary at that time. ”
Infatuated men are admired, and infatuated women are even more admired. Meng Jiangnu cried down the Great Wall and saw her husband's corpse; Zhu Yingtai chose Liang Shanbo, and would rather go to the tomb to be buried with Liang Shanbo than steal his life; ran at night and eloped with Li Jing; Du Siniang was single-minded, but she was toyed with, and finally chose to throw herself into the river with the treasure chest. Of course, it is a good thing that an infatuated woman meets an infatuated man, but if an infatuated woman meets a negative man, it will really be a tragedy. Du Siniang angrily sank into the treasure chest, that is, the infatuated girl met the negative man, as well as Huo Xiaoyu in the Tang legend "The Biography of Huo Xiaoyu", Cui Yingying in "Huizhen Ji", etc., are all infatuated women, but they have not met infatuated men. Later, Hong Sheng's "Palace of Eternal Life" wrote the love story of Emperor Tang Ming and Yang Guifei, which can be regarded as an infatuated woman meeting an infatuated man. There is also Du Liniang in Tang Xianzu's "The Soul of the Peony Pavilion", who was combined with the scholar Liu Mengmei in a dream, died of illness and was buried in the plum blossoms. Later, when Liu Mengmei came here, Du Liniang was resurrected, and she married Liu Mengmei, realizing her pursuit of love and marriage. Tang Xianzu commented: "Those who are like beautiful girls can be described as having lover's ears. I don't know what to do, and I go deep. The living can die, and the dead can live. Those who are born and cannot be resurrected, and those who die and cannot be resurrected are not lovely. ”
Infatuated lovers, whether they are men or women, will regard feelings as the first priority in life and the greatest value. This kind of metaphysical value has transcended the material level, transcended the moral system, and has become the most sincere and sexual emotion, revealing another meaning of life. Perhaps, in their value system, life is only worth when they are with the people they love, otherwise there is no value. Even if you live in the world, you don't necessarily feel good. Single-mindedness, even infatuation, beyond ethics and morality, beyond the law, and even beyond life and death, already has great significance, which is not understandable to ordinary people. Perhaps, people should respect this emotion, and it is also a kind of respect for individual life.