Dad teaches boys like this, and boys will become more and more responsible and promising.
1. Dad should be a good role model.
It's not uncommon for children to actually imitate their family's behavior. In family education, it has always been a mother who is kind and strict with his father, and the words that come out of his father's mouth are more majestic, so his father must be a good role model. Mom and Dad usually get along, Mom is relatively weak, Dad usually has to give Mom enough respect, to let Mom establish supremacy in the family, this is the best gift and the best education for children. At the same time, fathers should also teach their children to love their mothers, and boys who know how to love their mothers will have more respect for women when they grow up and can better understand the preciousness of family affection.
2. Heroes in the hearts of children.
In the hearts of every little boy, their dad is omnipotent, and in times of difficulty, dad shows qualities of bravery and determination that the child admires. No matter what difficulties and challenges are encountered, dads should remain calm and confident, not afraid or back-down, and set a positive example for their children. At the same time, in daily interactions, fathers should pay more attention to their children's feelings and needs, communicate more with their children, establish intimate relationships, and let children feel the warmth and care of their fathers.
In addition to being brave and caring, dads also need to teach their children how to solve problems. When the child encounters difficulties, the father should patiently guide the child to think about the problem and teach the child how to find a way to solve the problem, so that the child can continue to grow in practice. Finally, Dad is to set a positive example in his daily life. Whether it is speech and behavior or behavioral habits, Dad should lead by example, show positive qualities and behaviors, so that children feel that Dad is excellent in all aspects, and gradually form correct values and outlook on life in imitation.
3. Teach boys to be manly.
Teaching a boy to be a man can start in the following ways:
Develop self-confidence: Boys need to develop self-confidence and make them believe that they can be a good person. Parents can help their children build self-confidence through encouragement, affirmation, praise and other means, so that children can gradually overcome negative emotions such as low self-esteem and timidity in the process of growth.
Develop a sense of responsibility: Boys need to learn to take responsibility, which is one of the important qualities of being a man. Parents can appropriately arrange some housework or tasks for their children, so that children feel their responsibilities and obligations, and at the same time, they should also educate children to be responsible for their own behavior, have the courage to admit mistakes and actively correct them.
Cultivating independence: Boys need to learn to live and deal with problems independently, which is one of the necessary conditions to become a man. Parents can encourage their children to solve problems on their own in daily life, and cultivate their children's ability to think and act independently.
Develop resilience: Boys need to have resilience and be able to persevere in the face of difficulties and setbacks. Parents can encourage their children to participate in some challenging activities or sports, so that children can experience setbacks and difficulties in practice, and teach children the spirit of not giving up and not withdrawing.
Cultivating good moral qualities: Boys need to have good moral cultivation such as honesty, trustworthiness, and respect for others. Parents can cultivate their children's moral cultivation through words and deeds, education and guidance, etc., so that children can become moral and cultivated people.
Cultivate your child's love and let him know how to help those in need. At this stage, the father needs to be a good role model, communicate and teach the child more, and insist, do not "fish for three days and dry the net for two days", the child will not form a habit. Dad's words and deeds can really make children become manhood!
4. Be sure to remember to talk to boys about gender issues.
Gender, dad one sentence, always top mom 100 sentences. Especially after the age of 3, boys enter the embryonic period of gender. The father wants to tell his son two things: where did we, as men, come from and what are our physical characteristics?How can I protect myself?Moms are women, and as men we have to learn to love and care.
Protect the girls around you. Let him respect women, have a sense of responsibility and fairness, and grow up to be a responsible and caring man.