Basic etiquette for two families to avoid bringing these two items when visiting!
Respect each other and go to your mother-in-law's house without feelings.
As parents, we tend to focus on our children's emotions and actions, because we are the ones they trust and support. However, one of the most important etiquettes we have when dealing with our in-laws is mutual respect. Although we have the right to defend the rights and interests of our children, we cannot dictate to the children of our in-laws. Moreover, the people who live together will inevitably have some skirmishes, and this skirmishes are their own business, and we can't meddle in them. Excessive intervention and emotional remarks will only intensify the conflict and have a negative impact on the harmony of the children's small family. As a parent, you have to stand up on big and small issues, and at other times you have to be kind and be a kind guest. If you encounter any problems, you should also communicate calmly with your mother-in-law. In order for parents to have a good family, they should respect and understand each other.
Don't go to other people's homes with a comparative attitude.
Between people, there will always be a feeling of comparing with each other, that is, if you are stronger than others, others will be jealous, and others will be arrogant. However, we must realize that we live for ourselves, not for others. When we get along with our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must respect each other as the premise, and we can't always compare, let alone judge each other's family background by poverty and wealth. We must understand that being a mother-in-law is equivalent to getting married to our children, and we can't just rely on our own strengths to belittle each other in words and deeds, and exalt ourselves. This practice is not only not conducive to the happiness of children, but will bring contradictions and hidden dangers to children, and cause conflicts between children. The relationship between parents and family members cannot be that you are great and I am bad, but that they support each other and make progress together. As parents of children, we should stand at the height of the overall situation, respect each other, and do not despise each other because of the interests of our children. The relationship between the child and the father will last only on the basis of equality. Therefore, when visiting relatives and friends, we must pay attention to etiquette and not have a comparison mentality.
Avoid touching uneven objects.
When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, in addition to paying attention to each other's feelings and attitudes, they should pay more attention not to bring ** objects into each other's homes. Here, the disrespectful thing is not a specific thing, but only something that disturbs or annoys people. As an example, some gifts are too expensive. Although gift-giving can show your respect and gratitude to your mother-in-law, it can also make your partner feel embarrassed and nervous if it is too expensive. In addition, some permanent gifts, such as animals and flower pots, are not suitable for carrying. At this time, you need to choose a gift that suits you according to the other party's preferences to show your gratitude.
On the premise of respect and sincerity, we emphasize exchange and communication.
The relationship with in-laws should be based on mutual respect, sincere communication and sharing. We need to listen to each other's needs and concerns in an understanding and inclusive manner, and express our views and opinions. In the process of communication, we can also exchange our own life bits, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law becomes more harmonious. In the process of communication, it is necessary to pay attention to the choice of words, and the wording should be gentle, and no antagonistic or derogatory language should be used. Only in sincere exchanges can the two sides understand and trust each other, and create a strong and harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Summary and reflection.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most precious in human society, which not only affects the happiness of children, but also affects the harmony and stability of a family. To have a good relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law, you must always be respectful, sincere, and understanding, and do not bring feelings and comparisons into each other's homes. In the process of communication, it is necessary to pay attention to communication and listening, respect the needs and opinions of others, and do not use hostile or derogatory language. When giving gifts, you should also be careful to choose the right gifts so as not to make the other party unpleasant and embarrassed. Maintaining blood relations is a joint effort and giving from both parties. Only by treating people with mutual respect and sincerity can we create sincere feelings. Creating and maintaining a good parent-child relationship can create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere and promote the healthy growth of young children. Let's work together to be a wise, respectful and sincere mother-in-law, and make a modest contribution to the healthy growth of our children.