In the world of love, there is a saying that is widely circulated-Small noises are pleasant, big noises hurt the body
Couples are young people, in the process of communication, it is inevitable that there will be bumps, quarrels are a way to communicate, understand, and vent between each other.
Here's a true story:
The story takes place early on a weekend morning, and the sun shines through the curtains on my face. I sat up lazily from the bed and saw that Ah Liang was still asleep. He has been very busy with work lately, and the two of us are like spinning tops overwhelmed by life, spinning and turning, but forgetting the feeling of stopping.
On that day, Ah Liang forgot the anniversary of our date. I know he's busy, but I'm still a little disappointed. At dinner, I couldn't help but mention the incident, with a hint of reproach in my voice: "You even forgot our anniversary, is it that work is more important than our love?" ”
Ah Liang was stunned for a moment, looking a little helpless: "You know how busy I have been lately. I did forget, but that doesn't mean I don't care about you. ”
But you're not prepared for even the slightest surprise....My voice began to rise, and the grievances in my heart poured out like a tide.
Can surprises be eaten as a meal? What we need now is stability and planning for the future! Ah Liang's voice also began to get louder.
We quarreled like this, and every word was a spark that ignited our peaceful life. At that moment, we forgot our original love, and we were left with each other's incomprehension and complaints.
However, at this very moment, a small gesture changed all that. Ah Liang suddenly stopped arguing, walked up to me, and hugged me tightly. He whispered, "I'm sorry, I was wrong. I love you more than anything else. ”
I froze, and then tears began to flow disobediently. I leaned on his shoulder, feeling the warmth and security that I had not felt for a long time. We didn't say anything more, just hugged quietly and let the time pass slowly.
That night, instead of sulking as usual, we sat on the couch and talked about our future and dreams. We talked a lot, including work, family, and even our relationships. We realized that what we needed was not to argue, but to find solutions to problems in communication.
Since then, whenever we have a disagreement, we try to sit down and listen to each other's ideas. We know that every little argument is a spark in love, they make our relationship stronger, and they make us cherish each other more.
This is my story, and I hope it will touch your heart and make you understand that in a relationship, those seemingly inconspicuous sparks are an important element that binds our love. They make our lives full of passion and vitality, and also make our love road more colorful.