Sometimes, children just don't listen, as if they are born to ignore the advice of adults. They can challenge our patience, mess with our plans, and even make us doubt our parenting style. So, what should we do when a child is disobedient?
First of all, we need to realize that children are curious and restless by nature. They haven't fully mastered their emotions and don't understand the consequences of things. So, they will act recklessly and ignore our rules. We can't always blame them from the moral high ground, but try to think from their point of view.
Secondly, we need to pay attention to establishing good communication with our children. Let your child understand that the rules and requirements we speak of are not meant to restrict their freedom, but to protect their safety and develop good habits. When children understand this truth, they will be more receptive to our teaching.
Furthermore, we need to set clear boundaries and consequences for our children. This means that we can't make our children feel like they can do whatever they want, and we can't indulge their willfulness all the time. Only by clearly telling your child what behaviour is not allowed and setting appropriate punishments or incentives will your child understand that there are consequences for his or her actions.
In general, children are disobedient not because they are naturally naughty, but because they need better guidance and love from us. As long as we are willing to take the time to listen to them, build a close relationship with them, and teach and guide them firmly, we can help children grow better and become more obedient and sensible.