In fact, there are only three things in the world, God's business, other people's business, and one's own business.
If the other party is someone close to you and you can't sit idly by, then you also have to remember not to establish a deep connection, especially to cut off this connection from the heart, and don't turn other people's affairs into your own. Spend all your energy focusing on your own growth and happiness, and don't consume yourself.
Learn to be alone and enjoy solitude, a person who can enjoy solitude alone is invincible, because there is nothing to look forward to, there is nothing to fear, and no one can handle you.
Don't pay attention to hot news every day, especially to control the desire to discuss the news with friends, there are only two gains from discussing the news, one is to waste time, and the other is to lose friends because of different opinions.
News only cares about traffic, they only report negative news, and often lead some controversial topics with partial generalizations, the bigger the argument, the happier they are, their only purpose is to attract more people's attention, and they don't care about right or wrong, and they don't care about good and evil.
For myself, the news is the main culprit of wasting time, and I try to control myself from watching any news in the future. Today's news will be worthless tomorrow.
People who don't value time waste time watching the news every day.
Smart people only care about their own lives.
Have you accomplished your mission today?
Did you read today's book?
Got a workout today?
Is today's article written?
Did you make money researching today?
If you're not done yet, then why are you wasting your time reading worthless news?
News is just a tool for some of the best amounts, just a tool for making money. They will throw out an opinion today, and tomorrow they will throw out an opposite point, and then they will have their goal by watching everyone be torn apart, watching everyone fight for red faces, preferably with their heads bleeding.
The biggest thing about the Internet is that it has brought an overwhelming amount of information garbage, and we must learn to block these garbage information in order to maintain a normal state of mind and prevent our time from being stolen.
The most precious thing for people is their time and attention, and what the news wants to steal is your time and attention.
If you spent your daily time watching the news and discussing the general trend of the world to make money, you may have made a lot of money long ago.
If you focus on it, your achievements will be.
What you care about, you will become.
If you pay attention to the news every day, you will become a leek harvested by news traffic.
If you focus on making money every day, you will become a person who has more and more earning power.
Mediocre people pay attention to news, entertainment, movies, TV series, games, eating, drinking and having fun every day, all of which are things of consumption, and none of them are things of creation, so they have become people who only consume and do not create.
Excellent people pay attention to their own growth every day, learn more knowledge, create more value, and only the value created can make you more valuable.
Even if a person has a Ph.D., if he can't create value for society, then he is just a nerd.
The reason why many people can only go to food delivery after studying for a master's degree or doctorate is because they only have academic qualifications and will not create value for society.
If you can't create value for society, society won't pay you, it's as simple as that.
If you can solve any problem of others, you can make money from it.
Your earning power depends on your problem-solving skills, not your academic qualifications.
If you can help others debug an automated production line, you are a debugging engineerIf you can help others take good pictures, you are the photographer;You can write good movie scripts, you are the screenwriter;You can fix air conditioners, refrigerators, washing machines, you are the repairman;You can make money with this skill.
You don't know anything, except for your academic qualifications, only physical strength, then you can only deliver takeaways.
No matter how high the education is, it is better to know a craft
It doesn't matter what you do, it's what problems you can help others solve.
Every day, ask yourself, what did you accomplish today?And not what was done today?
What is just done, but has no results, is the same as not being done.
If you read a book but don't remember anything, you don't read it.
We want results, not shows.
Don't pretend to be studying hard, don't pretend to be working hard, there's no point in being busy without results.
The biggest shortcoming of ordinary people is that they are unwilling to use their brains. I just want you to tell me how to do it, and then I don't have the brains to do it.
We have to do the opposite, only do those things that require the use of our brains, and only do the difficult things, so that our abilities will become stronger and stronger, and we will make more and more money.
The age of awakening for a person who is not supported by his parents is about thirty or forty years old.
In fact, the first step to be sober is to see the cards in your hand, know that the boundaries of your ability are in the **, be able to plan every step of your life without illusions, lose the fantasy of quick success and get rich, and be willing to gradually change yourself in a practical and practical way for a few years.
I thought I had a very good understanding, and I didn't wake up until I was 40 years old. Only then do you know that you can do everything well, you have to do what suits you, you have to do what you like and are good at, and you have to do things that you can do for a long time and have compound interest.
To do a business with a threshold, a business without a threshold means that anyone can do it, which means full competition without profits.
To cultivate their own core competitiveness, no core competitiveness will be swept up by others sooner or later.
To establish your own personal IP and cultivate your own private domain traffic, any public domain traffic is "** will run away sooner or later, or too expensive for you to afford."
The book I read today is "Elements of Technology" by Kevin Kelly.