Chinese New YearIt is an important traditional festival in China, and every family is looking forward to the moment of reunion. And send it to grandchildrenRed envelopesIt has also become an important tradition, representing the blessings and care of the elders for the juniors. However, in the grandchildren hairRed envelopesThe elderly need to pay attention to the details of three aspects, so as not to cause friction within the family. First of all, we must be equal and not favor one child because of the difference of grandchildren. Even if there is a slight preference in the heart, be thereRed envelopesBe consistent in terms of amount and don't give any grandchild a sense of leadership or loss. By equalRed envelopesDistribution, can avoid unnecessary contradictions and suspicions. Secondly,Red envelopesIt should not be too large or too large, and the amount should be controlled appropriately to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary burdens on relatives and families. Finally, it is necessary to avoid giving to relativesRed envelopesPaying too much thought and comparing psychology,Red envelopesIt is just a symbol that expresses the love of the elders for their children and grandchildren, and there is no need to use it as a criterion for judging family affection. Through the principles of equality, moderation and non-comparison, it is possible to make:Red envelopesTo be a bond that promotes family harmony.
AlthoughRed envelopesIt is the main way to show blessings and care for grandchildren, but there are other ways for older people to show their love. The economic conditions of each family are different, so you don't have to desperately compare and surpass others, and choose the right way to pass on love within the same economic ability. For example, the elderly can make it themselvesChinese New Year's Eve dinnerto cook some favorite dishes for your grandchildren; Or encourage your child to participate in social activities, provide learning opportunities and financial support. This kind of behavior can convey the love of the elders to the grandchildren more substantially, and give more care and encouragement to the children. At the same time, it is also possible to avoid willingRed envelopesThe amount is used as a measure of love, so that children pay more attention to emotions and family warmth.
Red envelopesIt is not only a symbol of money, but also a symbol of respect and the inheritance of traditional culture. I am sending it to my grandchildrenRed envelopesThe elderly should pay attention to the sense of ritual and make this traditional custom more solemn and cherished. Usually, inNew Year's DayOr when grandchildren come to pay New Year's greetings, they should be invited to solemnly come to the elders to express their New Year's wishes. Elders can also express their blessings and expectations to their grandchildren, and then willRed envelopesHand it to them. In some areas, juniors will also offer tea or kowtow to their elders as a sign of respect for their elders. Through such a ceremony, it is better to be able to carry it onChinese New YearThe tradition and the expectations of the elders for the new generation create a strong festive atmosphere. At the same time, the sense of ritual can also allow children to experience the fun of the festival more deeplyRed envelopesI will be happier and more cherished in the future.
In my personal observations and experiences, treating hairRed envelopesIn this matter, I very much agree with the principle of equality and moderation to avoid bringing negative emotions and family conflicts to children. Too much preference and comparison will only increase the burden on children, and at the same time, it will also bring unnecessary disputes to the family. On the contrary, expressing love in a variety of ways can better demonstrate the care and teaching of parents, as well as their expectations for the future development of their children. Above all, we should pay attentionRed envelopesThe sense of ritual makes the children understandRed envelopesThe meaning and tradition behind it. In this way, they can truly comprehendChinese New YearThe meaning of willRed envelopesThink of it as a way to convey emotion and family warmth, rather than just the size of the money.
All in all, send it to grandchildrenRed envelopesYesChinese New Yearimportant traditional customs. But we also have to pay attentionRed envelopesThe distribution is not only a matter of money, but also a kind of emotional transmission and family relationship maintenance. Only by balancing fairness and preference, expressing love in a variety of ways, and paying attentionRed envelopesThe sense of ritual that we can be inChinese New Yearto truly create an atmosphere of happiness and harmony. I hope that everyone can spend a reunion, happiness and happiness in the new yearChinese New Year