On February 25, Zong Qinghou, the founder of Wahaha Group, passed away, and everyone's eyes were focusedZong Fulibody. Who is she? Zong Qinghou's only daughter and the only heir of the group. 
Zong Fuli took over the relevant positions of Wahaha Group in one day and steadily got the baton from her father. Prior to this, people's impression of Zong Fuli was still stuck in the Wang Leehom incident in 2019. As soon as she took office as the head of Wahaha's public relations department, she abandoned Wang Leehom, the spokesperson who had cooperated with Wahaha for 20 years. Zong Fuli was pushed to the forefront because of this, and many years later, the idol fell, and people worshiped this daughter "prophet". Today's Zong Fuli has become more mature and sophisticated, but her excellent resume and extraordinary bearing in interviews have not diverted the public's attention. The first thing people care about is:At the age of 42, why is she still unmarried and childless. 
A large-scale online sexual harassment In fact, it is not the first time that Zong Fuli has been on such a large-scale hot search. The last time it became the focus of **, it was because of the courtship farce staged by a group of stinky men in the Weibo comment area. 
Under Zong Fuli's Weibo account, which has not logged in for many years, the whole network has witnessed the diversity of human biology. Some people fantasize that they have married Zong Fuli, and they are obsessed with living after marriage, and even arrange their plans to take wedding photos and have children. "Please respect our married life. "Lily is going to marry me right away. ”
We're getting married this year and we're going to have a dragon boy next year. ”
There are also people who check in every day to show their love, full of earthy love words, sweet words, not only want to marry Zong Fuli, but also want to find a job for themselves by the way. "I want to marry you and take care of the company commute together. In this life, it can only be you, it must be you. ”
There are even crazy people who talk nonsense, directly regard Zong Fuli as their wife, and open their mouths to make payments. "I don't have any money, you transfer me 30,000 yuan, let's hurry up and have a child, otherwise when you are old, we won't be able to have a few children, and one child a year may be girls, at least one boy." ”
and threatened to sell miserably, so that Zong Fuli could meet with him. 
There are even some people who are not satisfied with verbal harassment and have posted ps** on social platforms, which have been reported by netizens for malicious rumors. 
Fortunately in misfortune, Zong Fuli never went on Weibo to avoid being disturbed by these shameless suitors and pulled into the quagmire. But that's not all, there is no shortage of obscene dream men who shout to Zong Fuli offline. The most famous one, Zheng Quanhai. 
He specially opened an account to record his courtship process, wore a poster printed with Zong Fuli to swagger through the market, and even chased all the way to the Wahaha headquarters. As a bystander, you can watch it as a joke, but you can think about it as a person. There are also people who make a huge marriage proposal, holding flowers and rings, backed by luxury cars and banners, pretending to want to give Zong Fuli happiness affectionately. 
These stinky men who are deranged and fantasize about "leprosy ** eating swan meat", or driven by traffic, or bewitched by money, jointly created a large-scale online sexual harassment. Although it didn't cause substantial damage, it was enough to make people feel guilty, and the cost of stirring a good single woman into malice was so low.
The underestimated 50 billion heiress never pays attention to the farce that has rushed to the hot search several times. As the sole heir of the family, she has more important things to do. is different from the image of the rich second generation who worships money and does nothing in the eyes of most people, the 42-year-old Zong Fuli's resume is real. He stayed in the United States in junior high school, returned to China immediately after graduating from college, and took the $10 million invested by his father Zong Qinghou to make drastic reforms and integrate resources in Hongsheng Beverage Group.
Zong Fuli single-handedly expanded one production line to 104, laid 16 production bases, and established more than 40 subsidiaries. In 8 years, Hongsheng has built a company with an adult income of 10 billion, rushed into the top 500 private enterprises in China, and also helped the independent production of the Wahaha brand, with a profit margin even exceeding Wahaha. But these achievements, the outside world does not know, Zong Fuli went from behind the scenes to the front of the stage from another thing. In 2018, Zong Fuli volunteered to serve as the head of Wahaha's public relations department. And the first thing she did when she took office was to fire Wang Leehom, Wahaha's image spokesperson for 20 years. Suddenly, ** was in an uproar, Leehom Wang was still a perfect idol without any stain. The outside world is also rumoring that the story of Leehom Wang and Wahaha achieving each other is rife. When Wang Leehom was unknown, it was Zong Qinghou who selected him among many candidates, and in order to repay the kindness of his acquaintance, Wang Leehom has never increased his endorsement fee after becoming famous. What's more, a year ago, Zong Qinghou just awarded Wang Leehom an "honorary employee" certificate at the group's 20th anniversary celebration.
Zong Fuli did not have a clear explanation for the termination of the contract with Wang Leehom, and only responded to the reporter's question with "I don't like it" and "he is old".
In the eyes of everyone, Zong Fuli's behavior was like slapping her old father in the face. Zong Fuli's experience was also taken out of context by the outside world, and she became a high-level wahaha parachute relying on her father's resources; The first launch of a new beverage product, kellyone, was a complete failure. That year, her social account was directly flooded by the keyboard warrior, and the bad comments on Weibo are still well-documented to this day.
And the most eye-catching discussion around her is still related to being older and unmarried, "I don't get married at the age of 40", "I don't look ugly, why have I never dated a man".
As soon as they smell a good single woman, these spectators will spontaneously create a trial about the "guilt of not marrying" in the form of Pavlov's dog. They didn't care, when she took over Wahaha's top management, Zong Fuli had been at the helm of Hongsheng Group alone for 15 years, and she had already grown into a mature entrepreneur. When Wahaha was impacted by e-commerce and could not keep up with the pace of the Internet marketing model, it was Zong Fuli who took the lead in leading the company to rejuvenation. The company's internal evaluation of Zong Fuli is that she is decisive and pragmatic. She is undoubtedly excellent in the second generation of enterprises, but standing on the shoulders of giants, enjoying the convenience of resources and wealth, every step must be strictly examined. And outside of the second-generation identity of the enterprise,As a woman, Zong Fuli wants to prove herself, obviously she has to work harder and bear more.
A trap tailored for womenIn almost all of Zong Fuli's interviews, after asking the usual topics of "corporate development" and "father-daughter friendship" for a round, the finale question is always related to marriage and love. In the business interview program "At Least One Hour", Sina's senior vice president conducted an in-depth interview with Zong Fuli. As an audience, I don't think the experience of this interview is good, but the style of the interview can be summarized as: What do you know? What achievements have you made? How do you prove that it works well? The whole process is like the interviewer's interview with Zong Fuli, revealing a condescending and fatherly taste. There is another detail, Zong Fuli mentioned in the process of telling about the difference between her and her father's management philosophy that her requirements are very strict. But before Zong Fuli finished speaking, the interviewer suddenly asked in surprise: "Your requirements are strict?" The words revealed disbelief, like contempt and dwarfing of Zong Fuli. The following interview confirms this even more. Interviewer: "What kind of person do you think your significant other should be?" Zong Fuli: "I don't know. ”
Interviewer: "Do you have a favorite actor, or do you like the image in that kind of plot?" Zong Fuli: "I don't think so, because these are illusory characters. ”
Interviewer: "Your dad wasn't in a hurry to let you solve your personal problems?" Zong Fuli: "It's not an arranged marriage now. ”
When dealing with these boring questions, Zong Fuli smiled with a slight helplessness. In the end, he replied domineeringly: "I don't think this show seems to be very high-end." ”
Objectively speaking, Zong Fuli has already given enough face without patting the table and leaving the table, but she and her father Zong Qinghou carried the Danone acquisition together and kept the Chinese national brand. After all, a male entrepreneur with tens of billions of assets should not be asked: "Who is your favorite actress?" "I won't wait for a comment of "fat circle" after giving a public speech on the concept of corporate management.
How familiar this scene is. Yan Ning, a female scientist with outstanding achievements in the field of scientific research, was also asked "why don't you get married" and "it's a pity" after being on the hot search.
After Gong Lijiao, the shot put champion, won the gold, the reporter asked in an interview: "What do you want to do next in your life as a girl?" The implication is that the burly Gong Lijiao does not meet the standards of women's stereotypical aesthetics, so she is not a girl.
Even Quan Hongchan and Gu Ailing, who won consecutive battles in the Olympic arena, were discussed on TV shows about "who is more popular with male audiences".
These outstanding women, like Zong Fuli, have made good achievements in their respective fields, and they have so many wonderful stories and mental journeys to share, but they cannot escape the fate of being despised, judged for their physical appearance, and created the fear of being single. Attention that should have been focused on their own accomplishments was also unconsciously diverted. Behind this is offense, prejudice, a trap set for women. Discipline women consciously believe that the pursuit of self-worth in life is unsatisfactory, and not marrying and having children is a major shortcoming in life. And those single women must live a more glamorous life than married women in order to barely win the superficial respect of others, and they have to be said behind their backs:So what, it's not that there are no men. reminds me of an interesting dialogue in the movie "The Myth of Love". Someone said, "A woman is incomplete without raising a child in her life." The two women next to him looked disdainful: "Liar, I can also make this up, a woman is incomplete if she has not thrown off a hundred men in her life, and a woman is incomplete if she has not earned a million in her life." ”
There are so many similar standards in life, and different value orientations can concoct thousands of "life fulfillment" criteria. But it's not necessarily right, or even right or wrong, it's all about personal preference. Therefore, don't give up the right to choose the direction of your life, of course, it is not advocating that everyone is not married and infertile. Rather, I hope that every woman enters into marriage, decides to have children, and does anything else from the true desire of the heart. Don't be bullied by imaginary panic, and don't be bound by the shackles created by the outside world. You can be a flower, you can be a tree, you can be a seed that hasn't germinated yet.