Understand the thinking of girls, and chase love with half the effort
If you lack strategy in your pursuit of a girl, you're scurrying around like a headless fly. At this time, what we need to do is to get to know her thoughts, and focusing on our own thoughts will only hinder effective communication between you and her.
We may all have had the experience of having a conversation with a foreigner, he speaks English and you speak Chinese, and your language is different, which will lead to difficulties in communication between you.
In the same way, sometimes you do something that you think will bring you closer to the girl, and you think it's good for the girl. But do girls really need you to do this?
Sometimes a girl may even think you're harassing her and stay away from you. Men and women are two different species, and in addition to surviving in the workplace, the biggest challenge for boys is how to read girls' emotions.
And those boys who know how to think about girls, they can often avoid these things, they can nip the negative emotions of girls in the bud, and pursue girls in the most effective way.
Today, Sister Xuan is here to share with you how to understand the thinking of girls!
There are differences in the way boys and girls think when buying a car and chatting. Boys pay more attention to the performance of the car, while girls pay more attention to the look and feel of the car. As a result, when a boy pursues a girl, he may feel that the girl is good to him, but he will not be moved.
Girls, on the other hand, worry that boys will be so good to other girls. In addition, when a guy chats with a girl, there are also some straight guy chat questions, such as asking some irrelevant questions.
Boys are more focused on the outcome of pursuit, while girls are more process-oriented. Therefore, when a guy chats with a girl, he should share his emotions and feelings more than directly talking about logical issues.
Girls' words can sometimes be difficult to figure out, especially when they express "yes" and "don't". Although there is a saying circulating online that "girls say don't want to be, and if they say yes, they don't", this is not entirely accurate, as girls' thoughts and expressions do not always match.
A girl may say that she likes guys who are good to her, but in fact she may prefer guys who are bad to her, a little bit bad. That's why we can't fully trust what girls say.
However, by observing their tone and mood when they speak, we can better understand what they really think. For example, when you are in an affair and the girl says "hate", it may not mean that she is angry.
Conversely, when you're in the Cold War, she might say "not angry," but she may be angry. Therefore, it is necessary to take into account the context and atmosphere of the time when understanding the words of a girl.
In general, we can't blindly believe what girls say, but by observing their emotions and tones, we can get a more accurate picture of what they really think.
Therefore, no matter what the girl says, we should try to move the relationship forward, especially when the atmosphere is right.