The testimony of marriage is not only a ring, but includes the bed, the bed is a representative of the entire family environment and all aspects of personal life, the bed is not only a place to rest and sleep, it is also an important embodiment of the intimacy of the husband and wife, the time spent together in the bed, hiding your life, the bed you sleep with him hides your love.
Whether your marriage is going well or not can be seen from how he behaves in bed.
1.Love or not, know before going to bed.
There is a kind of man, he treats his home as a hotel, he never asks about housework, and he never asks about your mood, when you are tired, you want to talk to him about your troubles and trivial things, but he plays this game, you see that he ignores you, and you want to stop talking.
I saw a ** on the Internet, the wife had a difficult birth, the doctor said that it was to protect the adult or the child, the husband said to protect the child, that is his son, he can't live without a son, the mother-in-law asked the doctor to protect the adult, she is a family member, she came to sign, the man said that you are not broken off after me, I can't live without a son, I want to protect the child, the mother-in-law said how inhumane men are, the wife is like this, completely disregarding the safety of the wife, and wants the child not to be the wife.
The mother-in-law felt cold, she signed desperately, and finally the wife gave birth to a daughter smoothly, the mother and daughter were safe, but the husband heard that it was a daughter, he was not happy, the wife was hospitalized for a few days, he disliked his wife for not giving him a son, and did not go to the hospital to visit his wife for a few days, the wife was angry and discharged from the hospital and could only go back to her parents' house, and the husband did not go to see his wife and children for a month in her mother's house, the husband's mother asked him to visit his wife, and the husband still did not want to see his wife, Eventually, the wife made up her mind to divorce her husband.
There was a neighbor, two people fell in love and got married, the two could have a bright future, but when they were married for two years, her mother-in-law injured her foot, and the woman had to take care of the family and take care of her mother-in-law.
Every time I want to talk to my husband, my husband is busy with his work, and he can only come home late at night every day, at that time she has already rested, they rarely communicate, and the woman can't stand being so young, and she has to take care of her mother-in-law and do housework, and then she gets depressed and has the idea of suicide.
The most difficult thing about marriage is that two people have their own lives, there is endless money and endless work between each other, there is no communication, a good marriage is two hours before going to bed, two people listen to each other's feelings.
2.It's not true, you know it after you go to bed.
A netizen said that she and her boyfriend have been together for many years, but every time her boyfriend falls asleep after making love, she said that she is very happy with her boyfriend in the process of turning over the rain, but seeing her boyfriend's performance afterwards, it is inevitable that she will be a little disappointed.
There is a saying: "Rolling the sheets and sleeping between a man and a woman are two different feelings, the former is a physical need, and the latter is a mutual affection." ”
Obviously, her boyfriend only has a large part of his physical needs, and the person who is sincere to you will hug you tightly, kiss you, and tell you how he feels after intimacy, instead of leaving you alone.
I saw a ** on the Internet, the woman is a successful woman, but emotionally she is a failure, she is in her 30s, she has not met the right person, there are many men around her who like her, and she refuses to go out of the door.
There is a little fresh meat and she is dating, but he is just skin to skin, every time after rolling the sheets, the woman stipulates that she will leave at ten o'clock, and after each intimacy, the little fresh meat still wants to have a skin-to-skin relationship with her, but the woman said, there are still a few minutes to ten o'clock, you have to go back. Women don't love Xiao Xianrou, and they are only with him to meet her physical needs.
Remember, hug each other tightly after intimacy, reluctant to you, and cherish the person who says goodnight to you.
3. Loyal or unfaithful, only sleep with you.
In the generation of parents and grandparents, they only loved one person all their lives and had a stable relationship, while in modern times loyalty is a luxury. If a man is consistent with you, cuddling with you at night and saying good morning to each other in the morning, then it is good enough.
In the entertainment industry, the relationship between Chen Daoming and his wife, the two have experienced 41 years of marriage, although there are scandals in the middle, but Chen Daoming has always been consistent with his wife, in married life, the two of them face all kinds of difficulties encountered in marriage, when others ask her what is the preservative of marriage? He said that he often went home to eat and go home to sleep.
In fact, there is no more love between adults than someone who shares a bed with you, someone who talks to you about their hearts, sleeps together in the evening, and sees each other for the first time in the morning.