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The online Q&A platform asked: What things can show the wisdom of middle-aged people?
I was born in 67 years, a sheep, 55 years old, and an amateur writer. I'd love to talk about that!
I think the wisdom of middle-aged people should be manifested in the following aspects:
, the outer circle and the inner square, do not deliberately show their integrity.
Society is complex, people's hearts are unpredictable, and sometimes, your integrity just affects the interests of some people. Then, these people will hold a grudge against you.
You haven't changed anything, but you've been hated.
This kind of thing I did when I was younger, and I don't do it now.
However, in my heart, I still know right from wrong and am still upright.
、It's rare to be confused.,Don't immediately make public attitude towards personnel.。
Sometimes, there are people and things that I haven't heard of, and it's not that I haven't seen them.
Of course I knew what was going on, but I pretended not to hear or see it.
There are some bad people and bad things, pretending not to know, may be the most clever way to do it.
Choose people to associate with, and don't spend too much time on interpersonal communication.
When I was young, I was also eager to socialize, to reach the realm of all brothers in the world.
When people reach middle age, they find that it is impossible and unnecessary.
In the world, it is very good to have three or five confidants, ten or eight friends, and it is impossible to have many confidants and many friends.
Generally speaking, ordinary people (with the exception of special occupations) do not need so many confidants and so many friends.
So,It's nice to be friendly with everyone and befriend a small group of like-minded people.
There is no need to spend a lot of time, effort, and money on ineffective socializing.
Don't be greedy, let others get more.
Human nature tends to take advantage of it.
Greed takes advantage of the advantage, which leads to the ultimate loss.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, they often realize that they should not take advantage of others.
When dealing with others, let others get more appropriately, so that they will be popular and popular.
Keep a clear idea of what is not good for you.
There are some people who seem to be born to be your nemesis, and being with these people is not conducive to your own work.
At this time, there is no need to be angry, there is no need to be angry, there is no need to offend anyone, if you see it, you will quietly retreat and stay away from them.
When I was young, I liked to talk about it, but when I reached middle age, I learned to be quietHehe.
The most important thing is to concentrate and do a good job of yourself.
Life is very hard, and if you want to live better, you must try to rely on yourself.
Remember, it's better to rely on yourself than on anyone.
So,It is wisest to spend the most time and energy on cultivating oneself and doing oneself well.
I am wonderful, I have some weight, and there will be more people who are willing to approach me.
Otherwise, complaining will not only not help, but will also make the situation worse.
Don't be afraid to endure hardships, hardships often pay off.
A person must endure the hardships that should be endured.
For example, in your own work, endure hardships in order to improve; Only by enduring hardships can there be achievements; Hardship is visible to everyone around you.
Often, enduring hardships will accumulate something for you, making the foundation of your existence a little thicker.
I'm a teacher, and I'm still teaching at the age of 55. I'm an amateur writer and still writing at the age of 55.
Because I know that these are the hardships I have to endure in my life.
It is my destiny to endure such hardships, people over fifty know the destiny of heaven, hehe.
Love the family, the family is their eternal home.
When people reach middle age, they will become more and more aware of the importance of family.
An ordinary person, no matter how you jump, your family is the center of your circle.
If you lose the center of the circle, you will be at a loss when you walk.
The home is a place of rest, a place of recuperation, a place of replenishment.
People who love their families will go further.
It's okay not to applaud the good, but never applaud the ugly.
The environment is complicated, and sometimes, it is difficult to cheer for the good.
It's sometimes understandable not to applaud the good.
But never applaud ugliness.
Applauding ugliness is called losing the principle of being a human being, which is tantamount to reducing oneself to a worm.
You have reduced yourself to a worm, and people with discerning eyes will look at you, and they will despise you in their hearts.
That's my answer to this question, dear friend.
I wonder if it can help you a little?
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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.