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The online Q&A platform asked: If a family doesn't want to go downhill, what kind of sober understanding should it have?
As a 55-year-old high school teacher and amateur writer, I'd love to talk about this valuable question!
According to my observations, if a family does not want to go downhill, it must have the following six clear understandings:
First, we must maintain family harmony.
As the saying goes, home and everything prosper. The family generally maintains harmony, family members get along with each other, discuss and deal with problems together, and face difficulties together, so as to overcome difficulties. Then such a family will become more and more prosperous, and it will continue to go up.
On the contrary, if a family loses harmony, and family members, such as husband and wife, have small quarrels every day, and big quarrels, then, when encountering good things, they can't share happiness together, they can't work together to deal with bad things, they are in a bad mood every day, and it is even more impossible to cooperate with each other, then the family will inevitably go downhill.
2. Family members must not be tainted with bad habits.
The failure of a family is often related to the fact that family members are tainted with some kind of vice.
For example, in a family of three, if the father is involved in gambling and can't extricate himself, it will be terrible. No matter how much money the family has, no matter how much money the mother makes, it will flow away from the bottomless pit of the father. Moreover, the gambling father is likely to be constantly caught, detained, fined, and reputationally repercussions for the family.
In this way, if the family is not defeated, it will not be possible.
In addition to gambling, severe alcoholism and serious style abuses are also common causes of family failure.
3. Family members must not break the law.
Our society is developing more and more in the direction of a society governed by the rule of law, and a citizen must have a sense of the legal system and must not violate the law.
Because the cost of breaking the law is too great for every family to bear.
For example, if a civil servant drives drunk, it is not only a matter of deducting points, fines, and revoking the driver's license, but also may go to jail, and may also affect public office. Therefore, a drunk driver, a drunk driver who has an accident, has the potential to change a person's life and bring their family downhill.
For example, the same is true for fights, if a family member is impulsive and he is injured, he will be hospitalized and spend money on the crime; If you injure or maim others, you will not only have to bear huge medical expenses, but you will also be prosecuted by the law, and you may be detained or even imprisoned. A family may be in decline because of this matter.
Some people may say that my dad is Li Gang, and I am not afraid. Then if you search for the outcome of that incident, you will know that even if your father is Li Gang, it is still the best policy to abide by the law.
Fourth, family members must be engaged in legitimate occupations.
The so-called legitimate occupation is a profession that does not violate the law or violates the law, and is beneficial to society.
It is okay to work, work, and do business for enterprises and institutions, without breaking the law and regulations, and benefiting the society. Three hundred and sixty lines of the line of champions, which line of work is done well, are all successful people, can revitalize the family.
However, if a family member goes to an evil path, such as drug trafficking, such as opening a casino, such as violently collecting debts, and so on, then the family member may be brought to justice at any time, and the family's fate may also change sharply at any time.
Fifth, family members should have a strong sense of anti-fraud.
In this era, there are too many **.
When it comes to network telecommunications fraud alone, it will be renovated in a variety of ways, and it will emerge in an endless stream.
Take our small county town in western Henan with a population of more than 300,000 as an example, according to reliable information, almost every day someone falls for Internet fraud, losing thousands of yuan, tens of thousands of yuan or even hundreds of thousands of yuan!
It is not easy for a family to have a little savings, and there are many kinds of frauds at the moment, if family members are accidentally fooled, then it is likely that a family's hard work for many years will be in vain, and the family may go downhill!
Therefore, in this era, preventing being deceived is also a very important thing for a family!
It's a bitter laugh, but it's a grim reality!
Sixth, live within your means and know how to save.
It is not that a family cannot raise its consumption level, but that it must raise its consumption level according to its own income level.
If you blindly compare with others and consume too much, then you will definitely spend your family savings, then the family will not have the ability to deal with unexpected events, and it is likely to be in debt because of some things, so it is not easy for the family not to lose.
In any family, in fact, saving is very important, and it needs to be fine, but the standard of "fine" is different.
Only by knowing how to flow a long stream can the family be stable and far-reaching, and only then can it always be better.
In short, if a family does not want to go downhill, it must have a clear understanding of the above six points.
If there is a big problem at any of these points, the family risks slipping in a bad direction.
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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.