There is a sentence written in The Silent Majority: "One of the main reasons I choose silence is that from the discourse, you can rarely learn human nature, but from silence you can. If you want to learn more, keep talking. ”
There will always be moments in your life when you are misunderstood, you are ridiculed, and the louder you explain, the louder the others laugh. Later, I found out that the best counterattack is silence.
In "Water Margin", there is a helpless story.
Yang Zhi was penniless after being driven out of the palace marshal's mansion, so he had to sell his ancestral knife for money, and he never thought that he would meet the bully Niu Er when selling the knife. After Niu Er saw Yang Zhi's knife, he was bent on dominating the treasure knife, so he tried his best to provoke and ridicule Yang Zhi. In the end, Yang Zhi couldn't bear it anymore and ended Niu Er's life with a knife, and then went to the official mansion to surrender and was assigned to the Daimyo's mansion.
It's not worth ruining your original life because of impulse. Those who can endure the battle of will, and do not get angry for no reason, have a shallow groove in their chest. The sign of a person's maturity lies precisely in this. Only by controlling your emotions in your own hands and not being surprised in everything can you have a smooth sailing.
I appreciate the actor Xu Zheng's attitude to life, he played the role of "Zhu Bajie" in the early days, and he was pointed to as "Zhu Bajie" when he walked to **. At first, he would feel red-faced, but after a long time, his mentality slowly changed. When he heard someone call him that again, he didn't care anymore.
He said: "When you can accept other people's eyes and opinions, it means that other people's attitudes cannot influence you, you know what your original intention is, and you can naturally live your truest self." ”
Not moving in color, it is calm in the bottom of the heart; Dare to accept it, it is for your own growth. If you endure it for a while, one day, you will be able to bloom new flowers in the quiet years.