In the past two months, I have experienced the baptism of life, and I have climbed from the brink of death to millions of debts. Because of this, I understand the meaning of living in debt. If you want to change your life and destiny, your greatest power is:
The first step is to learn to accept the status quo.
It doesn't matter if you have a few thousand dollars or a few debts. If you have a few thousand dollars, hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, millions, or more in debt, the first thing you have to do is be yourself. It's about acceptance. It doesn't matter if you have money or not, whether you have debt or not, you have to accept it first. You are already in such a situation, constantly thinking about saviors and time shuttles, but this can only reflect your own inner fears and fears of facing reality.
To accept the status quo, you must first have the courage to face it, not run away from it. At this time, the biggest demon is yourself, and only by defeating yourself can you gradually get out of the predicament. What kind of person you are depends on what kind of life you see. When you can't decide which direction your wisdom should go, life may become simpler if you first unload your baggage and accept your true self.
Second, don't be distracted by current or past gains and losses.
You're making choices about a lot of things, so there's gains, losses, and risks. If you know that behind every loss there is a bigger purpose, more challenges, and a lot more to do in life, you won't feel bitter about what you've lost anymore. Profits and losses are like two sides of the same coin, you can't see the positive side while looking at the other side. We must have the right attitude towards the gains and losses of life. Focusing only on short-term gains will definitely lead to failure in your life and career. Sometimes, losing something isn't always a bad thing. Only when you are in debt will you realize that life is not easy and you will know how to cherish what you have lost. With this mindset, you will never be lost or disappointed.
3. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.
Even if you are in debt, don't be depressed, and have the mindset to rebuild your career and start anew. Opportunities are for those who are prepared. We all have to go through the good times and the bad times in this world. It is often said that life is worse than death, but the worst thing a person can do is to live in poverty and go into debt.
How to solve the debt? First, we want to survive, so we have to be prepared to endure it for the rest of our lives. Second, we need to reflect on ourselves, reflect on the past, and look for a way out. In order to survive, you have to find out, and finally, you have to be determined. Things got worse.
People who are willing to borrow money are experienced people. Look at those who are content with the status quo, focused on their work, and have no ideas. So don't be discouraged. Be strong, have a calm mind, have opportunities to seize anytime and anywhere, don't be afraid of debt, don't be afraid of being lazy, there are many bosses around you who have taken responsibility and turned around, but they are not accepted by ordinary people, you don't need to go through any process. Life didn't go so well. It must be considered. What if you have a bigger problem later? So now we have to prepare for the worst and do our best to change the status quo.
There are peaks and troughs in life, there are ups and downs, and anyone can find themselves at the lowest point of their life or in huge debt. Whether you're at the lowest point in your life or you're in debt, it's not scary, it's scary to lose the courage and confidence to get back on your feet. If you have faith, nothing can crush you; If you have courage, there is no obstacle that you cannot overcome.