Xiao Zhang and her boyfriend Xiao Wu because of 18The bride price of 80,000 yuan was finally broken up. The two originally depended on each other in Hangzhou, but when it came to marriage, contradictions kept emerging. Xiao Zhang's family background is not bad, and his parents only hope that the man's family will show sincerity. They proposed a bride price of 1880,000 yuan, in fact, will be brought back to the new home as a dowry and a car. However, this was not recognized by the Xiao Wu family.
Xiao Wu said that his family had exhausted everything because of the purchase of the house, and they could no longer afford to pay the high bride price. He knows that his parents have worked hard all their lives to save money, and now they have to come up with nearly 200,000 yuan as a bride price, and the pressure is too great. Xiao Wu also admitted frankly that his girlfriend's family conditions are better than his, and he hopes that Xiao Zhang can be more considerate. But many negotiations between the two families ended in unhappiness, which also made the two begin to re-examine each other's feelings.
Different people have different opinions on the issue of bride price. Most women believe that women need to be compensated for their property security in advance due to the loss of income and physical impact caused by taking care of the family and giving birth to pregnancy after marriage; And most women will also pay a large dowry, which is brought back to the newly formed small family with the bride price, which is equivalent to the "start-up capital" of the new family.
And many men believe that the bride price is a guarantee for women, so what is the guarantee for men? The bride price given before marriage, together with the dowry, even if it can eventually be brought back to the new family, is considered the woman's premarital property, and it is still insecure for men. On the one hand, he wants equality, and on the other hand, he wants a bride price, and the man empties his six wallets to pay a high bride price, is he getting married or selling his daughter?
According to the Ningbo Intermediate People's Court, the number of cases involving bride price disputes has been on the rise in recent years. In view of the key and difficult issues in judicial practice, such as the scope of the bride price, the principle of returning the bride price, and the qualifications of the subject of the litigation, the "Provisions" regulate and improve the relevant adjudication rules. This provision helps to unify the standards for the application of the law and balance the interests of both parties in accordance with the law.