I believe that all parents want to establish a close relationship with their children, but due to various practical reasons, the parent-child relationship of many families is not harmonious enough, and some parent-child relationships are even to the extent of saber-rattling, which is obviously what parents do not want to see.
It's easy for parents to get angry with their children.
When faced with a child's mistake, many parents are angry with their children at the first time, and no matter what the occasion, or whether there are many outsiders present, they directly scold their children.
Such a move will undoubtedly embarrass the child and damage his self-esteem. Some children develop an aversion to their parents and deliberately turn against their parents.
Parents are even more angry because of their children's rebellion, exacerbating the conflict between parents and children.
This kind of behavior of parents who get angry regardless of the reason and occasion, and do not take into account the child's self-esteem, will also affect the child's character development, become short-tempered, and lose his temper when it does not go well.
1. Cry cry and cry to know how to cry, what is the use of you except crying Some children are born cryworms, and when they encounter something unpleasant, they will cry at the top of their throats. This is an incomprehensible thing for adults, but for children, it is a way to vent and confide, which is conducive to children's emotional self-regulation.
2. Others can do it, why can't you compare people to others, and people are angry. Every child has their own shining point, parents should be good at discovering the advantages of their children, rather than blindly comparing the advantages of other people's children with their own children's shortcomings, which will not only make them more and more angry the more they think about it, but also make the child very frustrated, feel that they are inferior everywhere, which will damage the child's self-confidence.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care can be successful, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't understand, you have to ask others for advice and learn the experience and art of raising flowers.
If parents lack relevant knowledge of children's education, and do not know how to obtain science, if they are also looking for books to study, then this set of books to educate children is the best choice.
This set of books is known as a must-read parenting book set for parents.
Includes all five hardcover volumes, including:"Positive Discipline","Don't yell and don't scream to cultivate good children", "A good mother is better than a good teacher"."You Are the Best Toy for Children" and "How to Say Children Will Listen" five volumes.
In the process of children's growth, there will be many thorny problems, such as rebellion, isolation, sensitivity, school boredom and so on.
I always feel powerless in the face of these parents, but these 5 books are close to life cases to help parents sort out the problems comprehensively and guide their children correctly.
The content of the book focuses on practical operation, does not talk empty words, and combines thousands of real cases to discuss, what parents should do, what children should do, at a glance. After reading it, you can learn a lot of practical methods, and it is a very practical set of family education tools.
While letting children learn to respect and be grateful, parents can also learn how to communicate with their children calmly and truly enter their children's hearts.
Through this set of books, parents can clearly understand what methods and strategies need to be adopted to educate their children.
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