The mother, who thought she was excellent, held back her anger and gently reminded: "Hurry up, baby, I'm going to be late." The little one agreed very sincerely. Mom left the scene with relief, but after a long time, the figure still didn't appear, so Mom had to hold back her anger and remind again.
After repeating it a few times, my mother's patience had already been exhausted, so Nezha possessed her, and her anger suddenly burned all over the house. It's infuriating that no matter if you fist and kick each other or look hideous, you can only "threaten" him for three or two minutes, and after a few minutes, he still goes his own way and drags on.
The "procrastination" of the neighbor's child is worse than mine's, and her child has to grind for an hour before writing homework, and when there is a lot of homework, she often can't finish it, and she stays up late at a young age. Parents looked very distressed, so they thought that the child would stop writing and get up tomorrow morning to write again, but the child got up in the morning and delayed, got up late, went to school late, and did not finish the homework. After this lap, the child did not rest well, and he did not learn from his studies. You can imagine how much "procrastination" affects children.
Affect your child's efficiency. If the child has severe procrastination, he hesitates to do things and procrastinates. In this way, the child drags time before each time he does something, and he also drags on time during the completion of the task. It takes twice as long to do a simple thing, which is very inefficient for getting it done.
Affect your child's routine。Just like the neighbor's child, he procrastinates on everything, but what should be done in one day is delayed to the next day, which completely affects the child's schedule and disrupts the child's schedule.
Influence the child's concept of time. For children with procrastination, time may be just a few simple numbers in their eyes. For these children, their sense of time is very weak, coupled with procrastination, if you make an appointment with them, they often do not arrive on time. This will lead to credit problems for your child.
For adults, what to do first, then what to do, and what to do last, there is a certain plan in their minds in advance, but children do not necessarily have such ability, and because of this, they need the guidance and guidance of their parents. If parents don't understand the situation, push too much, and blindly blame, then the problem really comes: a bear child who is really procrastinating, careless, and doesn't worry about everything is often raised in this way.
Everything needs to follow certain rules, and it is obviously unrealistic for parents not to ask their children to suddenly have an epiphany one day without the slightest practice beforehand. At the same time, it is important to remember not to compare your child to others. Children can be encouraged to compare themselves, i.e., vertically, but not horizontally.
Children do things slowly, usually because they don't have the same sense of time urgency as **, and their concept of time is more vague. Generally speaking, the child does not know what would be better if he got something done as quickly as possible, and he does not think that there is anything wrong with being slow. If the child is very slow when it should be fast, he will no longer interfere after a reminder is ineffective.
When necessary, the consequences of the child's friction should be presented to the child, and the child should be punished appropriately. Let children understand that the consequences of the habit of doing things are also very serious, and they will also be "punished" to a certain extent. Sometimes, appropriate punishment can help a child "wake up" quickly!
As soon as the child grinds the mother, he is anxious to do it for him, and this practice must be changed. Even if your child is slow or poor, give your child some patience and let him try it himself. In addition, there are some parents who do not even provide opportunities for their children to come by themselves, which makes it easier for their children to become dependent and unwilling to do things on their own. Once they are asked to do something, they will not take the initiative to use friction as a means of "avoiding labor".
I've always felt that my daughter is a relatively good child, but as the baby gets bigger and bigger, there are more and more small emotions, and sometimes it's really a headache. Today's recommended set of picture books is close to children's living habits and psychological characteristics. It is not like ordinary emotional picture books to preach the big truth, but to guide children to accept emotional positive thinking. I think this kind of picture book should be regarded as improving emotional intelligence, which can promote emotional intelligence, cultivate self-confidence and self-esteem, and establish a cheerful, optimistic and positive outlook on life.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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