What is Dink? To put it simply, yesDon't have children
There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is greatThis sentence was "the Dink family".Scoffed
Dink was introduced to China after 1980, time flies, and youth is not thereThe first "Dink Family".ushered in the life of his later years,No childrenTheir fate has long been traced.
The Dink Family "is a couple that have a certain amountEconomy**, but they allDon't want children。The term "dink" first became popular in the United States in the 1950s, especially in the 1950sHippiesWhen it was still very popular. In the 1980s, the idea of the "Dink" family entered the country.
At that time, the Dink family was considered by many people to be one of a kindUnresponsible behavior。With the development of the times, as well as the continuous emancipation of the mind, Dink's mode of life is gradually being recognized by the masses and used as a kind ofAn independent way of lifeChoose.
In today's world, the number of Dink families is unbalanced, such as Europe and the United StatesThe economy is developing rapidlyThe proportion of "Dink" is more than 40%, and "Dink" pays more attention to itselfQuality of life and freedom, do not want to affect their lives for the sake of their children. Unlike East Asia, the number of Dink families is not large, and most people still chooseFertility-basedway.
The emergence and rise of the Dink phenomenon has also had a certain impact on society. It challenges and changesTraditional family model, which has promoted the change of the form of social civilization, will no longer beFertilityRegarded as the only task of women, tooAdvancement of womenand liberation created an opportunity.
As the quality of life improves and the space for personal development broadens, it is likely that the Dink family will continueKeep the growth going。However, judging from the current development situation in various places, it may be difficult for it to be in East AsiaTraditional culture has a deep influenceof regions have completely replaced the mainstream of fertility.
Regardless of the external circumstances, however, Dink offers an alternative way of life, and its very existence adds to our social cultureRichness and inclusivity
What contributed to the emergence and development of the Dink phenomenon was a complex set of complexitiesSocial influencing factors
As a new type of family form, the emergence of the Dink family has its own background of the times. In the 80s of the 20th century, China began to implement itFamily planning policyMany families can only have one childThe cost of parenting has increased considerably, which provided the social basis for the emergence of the Dink family.
At the same time, reform and opening up have made itRapid economic development, people pursueThe rewards of the cause, unwilling to give up precious for procreationDevelopment opportunities。withSocial welfare systemThe continuous progress and improvement, especiallyEnhancement of the old-age security system, the traditional function of the family in providing economic support and social security has weakened.
In the pastFamilies with many childrenIt is considered to be the guarantee of old age, and now the social security measures such as pension and medical insurance provided by ** make people interested inEconomic dependence of future generationsDecrease.
The fast-paced and high-stress life of modern society has also had an impact on the younger generation. They are faced with high costsEducational costsHousing costsand increasingly intenseCareer competitionand these factors together lead to a negative impact on the childThe cost of raising children has risen dramatically
Every step of the way, from prenatal care during pregnancy to the growth of your baby**A lot of money and timedevotion, which makes many young couples feel stressed.
The reasons why people choose the Dink family can be boiled down to:The following aspects:
Some people often need it due to the special nature of their workInvest more time and effortAt work, they worry that childbirth will distract them from their careers, which in turn will affect their careersDevelopment and advancement opportunities
Improvement of the social welfare systemIncreasing cost of child supportandA shift in personal valuesand other multiple factors have contributed to thisThe Dink phenomenonThe emergence and development of . In this context, succession is no longer a matter of lifeUniqueness, but is seen as beingNumerous livesChoose one of the ones that people can make the most according to their wishes and actual situationThe right decision for you
Many families are not financially well-off, and the cost of raising children is relatively high, from education and medical care to daily living expenses, each of which requires a large investment. In this context, many couples are motivated by pairsQuality of lifeConsiderations, unwilling to fall into because of childbirthFinancial woes
Changes in personal valuesIt is also an important reason for the epidemic of the Dink phenomenon.
Modern society emphasizes individual freedom and self-actualization, and many people begin to pursue morePersonalized lifestyle, they value the personal moreCareer developmentSpiritual satisfactionwithQuality of lifeand not just putPassing on the family is regarded as a goal in life
This shift in perception has led to more and moreYoung peopleChoose not to have children and enjoy the life of the two peopleEase and ease
There are also some people because:Special circumstancesAnd was forced to become a Dink family. For example, there are families that originally had only oneOnly child, but in the process of growing upTragically died, which is undoubtedly a parent oneA huge blow
After such a heavy loss, they may be caused byPsychological traumawithEmotional exhaustion, unable to bear the pressure and risk of childbirth again, so chosenFertility is no longer considered
The emergence of the Dink family is one since the 80s of the 20th centuryNew social phenomenon, the reasons for which are complex and involvingCareer developmentEconomic conditionsPersonal choiceetcThere are many factors
These special families show different conditions when faced with old age. Either way, the existence of the Dink family provides us with reflectionTraditional family values, understoodDiverse family formsopportunity.
DinksWhen I was youngKeen to enjoy a life of freedom and freedom, unwilling to be bound by the burden of marriage and children. However, when they step inLater in life, all kinds of puzzles alsoOne after the other
The living conditions of these Dink families as they enter old ageIt's different。Some people are starting to feelEmptiness and spiritual loneliness, envy the elderly family with their children, and show calmness in the face of the shortcomings of the Dink family.
Still others do well from a young ageRetirement planning, noBurden on children, choose a pension institution in advance, and the husband and wife can freely arrange their time, live a full and free life, and pursuePersonal interests and dreams
The problems faced by the old man Dink are, first of allHealth problems。Without the care of their children, it is difficult for them to access them when they become illTimely**
According to research by Peking University, the Dink people are more likely to develop a major illness than the average elderly person20% higher。Quite a few old dinkersWorried, for fear of his old ageBear the pain of illness alone
is like a Dink lawyer on the Internet, she was diagnosed in middle ageAlzheimer's diseaseWith no children to take care of, she has to rely on nurses and nursing homes to get through her old age, she saidRegret not being at the beginningAll that is needed now is the warmth and love of the world.
There are also reports that a pair of old Dink were taken to the hospital because of a sudden heart attack by their husband, and the wife is in the hospitalHelpless, can only turn to relatives for help, which undoubtedly gives the Dink group the later lifeCast a shadow
The Dinks who have no children to rely on,Pension issuesis another problem that exists. often can only rely on the care of society and pension institutions, but our countryPension resources are limited, which many Dink old people can't getTake proper care
According to a number of surveys, exceedingHalf of the DinksFor the elderlyDeeply worried。Like an aunt in Shanghai who shared that although she is currently dependent on her husband and has a decent life, she is still optimistic about the futureDoubtful。If one goes first, should the other go on with his life? EnterNursing homes, and whether it can be exchangedThe warmth of the world
FaceChallenges, Dink old man deservesHow to deal with yourself? This is a concern for many Dinks.
Reasonable arrangementPensions and savings,Make sure you have enough money** to cope with old age. You can consider purchasing itInsurance products,Just in caseWhen you need it
Dink old man should also pay attentionHealth management, to prevent diseases, and when there are problems in the bodySeek prompt medical attention。This includes:Regular medical check-ups, keepEat a balanced dietExercise in moderationas well as nurturingGood living habits
ForAn old man who lives aloneto build a good oneSocial networksIt is also very important to participate in itCommunity eventsVolunteer serviceOr joinInterest groupsand so on, to make friendsLike-mindedFriends, reduceLoneliness
Dink elders can seek out a professional by looking forPsychological counsellingetcReduces anxietyTo improve their quality of life, counselors can help them deal with the stresses in their lives and learn coping strategies, so as to improve their psychological resilience and well-being.
Old Dink can also passDevelop hobbies, such as painting, gardening, etc., to enrich themselvesThe spiritual world, continue to learn new knowledge, maintainCuriosity, participate in lectures and seminars, which help the brain to be active, delay cognitive decline, and enhance the satisfaction of life.
If there is a conditional old man dink, you can passTravelto broaden your horizons and experienceDifferent cultures and lifestyles
Although the Dinks can live when they are youngA life without constraintsBut after entering old age, all kinds of problems also follow.
Effective measures to improve the lives of the Dinks in old age are needed by both the Dinksown efforts, also need to ** and society to give moreHelp & Supportto help the Dinks solvePractical difficulties。So that these old Dinks can still live without childrenA fulfilling and happy old age
It is important to keepPositive attitude towards lifeand keep lookingThe meaning and joy of life
Disclaimer) The article describes the process, **all** on the Internet, this article aims to advocate positive social energy, no vulgarity and other bad guidance. If it involves copyright or character infringement issues, please contact us in time, and we will delete the content as soon as possible! If there is any doubt about the incident, it will be deleted or changed immediately after contact. **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan