Let's first show you a set of data, this is the statistics of the number of marriages and divorces in my country in the third quarter of 2023:
Take Jiangsu Province as an example, in 2023, a total of 453852 couples will be married, and about 160,000 couples will be divorced, with a ratio of nearly 3:1, that is, for every 3 couples married in Jiangsu Province, 1 pair will go to divorce.
The age-old question about divorce is why the divorce rate is rising at the same time as the marriage rate is declining? Let's put aside the "internal causes" today, talk about the "external causes", and try to throw the pot to others.
And the killing of capital is the culprit.
Christmas, Valentine's Day, Qixi Festival, everything related to love, there must be capital to tout for women, this is not enough, and you will create a 520 Festival, Goddess Day, etc., and even the festival of Women's Day to promote the status of women's labor has also been put on the coat of flattering women.
Even the four seasons have been given special significance, the first cup of milk tea in autumn, the first roasted sausage in winter, etc., only you can't think of it, and you can't make it without capital.
Since it is a festival, it is necessary to pay attention to the sense of ceremony, men must know how to be romantic, flowers must be there, big meals must be there, surprises must be there, women can be unintentional, but men must have a heart.
This is the concept that capital brings to women, a kind of subtle guidance, and even men are ** in this regard, thinking that if you love her, you must consume for her, and women are even more so, people who are willing to spend money for me may not necessarily love me, but people who are unwilling to spend money for me must not love me.
Extending to the bride price, this money mainly depends on the attitude of the man, and those who refuse to give the bride price will not spend money for me even if they get married.
So, capital tells you what a good man is, that is, he is rich and willing to spend money for you, in a fashionable phrase, called a domineering president who falls in love with me.
Then the women in the marriage are so affected, and the comparison begins, you see, the man of the old Liu family bought a gold necklace for his daughter-in-law, his girlfriend's boyfriend gave her a brand-name bag, and the company colleague was taken abroad by her husband to travel, and you, I am sloppy, wretched, ugly and fart-loving Darling, when can I make money? Make good money?
There is no harm without contrast.
In the long run, the real world and the imaginary world will gradually coincide, regardless of each other, and the marriage will come to an end.
Of course, saying this will definitely touch the nerves of some people, but I hope that if there is a disagreement, please discuss it carefully.
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