"Relic 4 is not burned, and the children and grandchildren are backgammon", after the death of the old man, some relics are better not to be incinerated
When an elder of a family dies, his family must be very sad. This old man worked hard for his family before his death, but now he has passed away suddenly, which makes people sigh. In order to cherish the memory of the elderly and express their sorrows, children and grandchildren often set up mourning halls, do funerals, and see off the elderly. Filial piety is a manifestation of filial piety, and filial piety and virtuous grandchildren also have to burn their own things, so that they can be continued under the nine springs. However, there is a saying: "If 4 things are not burned, the descendants will get taller and higher", which means that after the death of the elderly, there are 4 things that are better not to be burned, namely: ** diary or books, collectibles, beds. Below, we will discuss in detail why artifacts should not be burned.
Photo. Ancient people believed that the soul was still there after death, so the coffin should not be left on the ground during burial to prevent ghosts from possessing the body. When the old man died, his history disappeared, and while he was alive, his appearance became part of his memory. However, the young grandchildren, their memories of what their elders looked like are blurry. As they get older, they may not remember what the old man looks like. Therefore, this old man's ** is very precious and must not be burned casually. Only in this way can future generations know that only in this way can they feel true love and love.
* It's like a crack in time that takes us to a long, long time ago. In that photo, the old man's smile is still there, revealing the warmth of time and the story of time. Each ** is a precious memory and a permanent touch. No matter how much time has passed, this face will become the person he loves the most, evoking his thoughts about him.
Journals, books. Books are the source of wisdom and the ladder that moves human culture forward. The rich experience accumulated by a person while he is alive cannot be replaced by future generations. The philosophy of life and life wisdom they wrote in their journals have a great enlightening effect on future generations. Every book and every diary embodies a lifetime of wisdom and a lifetime of hard work and understanding of the elderly. It is not only a kind of conceptual inheritance, but also a spiritual inheritance.
Extended reading: The journal is the mirror of the mind, and the language is where the mind is. In this vast diary, his life, his emotional trajectory, his emotional spring, his emotional spring, his emotional spring, and his thought spring. Each book is a treasure of knowledge, recording the old man's lifelong experience and understanding. It contains the wisdom and sweat of the sages, they are not only the first of the thoughts of future generations, but also the mentor of life, pointing out the direction for future generations.
Collection. An old man's collection is his life's work and affection. This collection may be a testament to its age, or it may be a special feeling. Although some people feel that burning them will allow them to continue to enjoy them on the Yellow Spring Road, preserving them or leaving them to their descendants may allow them to have more continuity in their feelings and memories, and also allow them to understand their attachments and feelings.
Extended reading: Collections are a testament to time and affection. Behind these objects, there is an elder's cherishment and affection for it, which is the proof of time and the memory of time. They are not only an accumulation of materials, but also a transmission of emotions, a transmission of emotions. No matter how valuable these objects are, they are an indispensable part of the lives of the elderly, their spiritual sustenance, and a wealth that future generations will never forget.
Bed. A hospital bed, which bears witness to the 1 3 in life, is the rest and rest of an old man. When a person dies, his bed and room layout are preserved so that his descendants can appreciate the taste of life when he was alive and the good times spent with him. Such a reservation is not only to commemorate the deceased, but also to prove the warmth and harmony between the family, a legacy, and a feeling. Keeping this bed can make children and grandchildren feel the care and concern for their elders at any time, and can also bring the family closer together.
Extended reading: The hospital bed, with the beginning of life's sleep and hope, is the warmth in the ordinary, and the embrace in happiness. The hospital bed, like a beacon of time, recorded her whispers and vicissitudes in her dreams. Keeping this bed is both a sign of respect for the elderly and a reminder of a better life. The little stories under the bed are like thin cracks being uncovered, flowing with family affection and warmth, so that the family can be together and cherish this beautiful memory together.
In short, when a person dies, his descendants will burn his things out of respect and filial piety to him. However, "the 4th legacy is not burned, and the children and grandchildren are getting higher and higher", which is due to the old man's photos, diaries, books, collections, and beds, which are all precious treasures in the hearts of future generations. It is not only the spiritual sustenance of the elderly, but also a bridge between family feelings and life wisdom. Preserving such objects not only reminds future generations of the hard work of the elders, but also enables them to continue to climb the ladder with gratitude and filial piety. Let us remember the love and warmth of this family, and experience the beauty and warmth of life in this warm family with this elder.