Sun Li once encountered a huge Waterloo in her career, which almost ruined her acting career. At that time, Sun Li was "abused" by many people because of this incident.
This matter made a big fuss at the timeFamous director Han HanWeibo for this matterQuestioningSun Li: Why do you want to raise wolves in Shanghai, where even large dogs can't be raised?
This"Wolves".Not really a wolf, but"White-eyed wolf". SoSun LiAnd this horse"White-eyed wolf". What does the story look like?
What tricks does this "white-eyed wolf" have to make Sun Li's career suffer such a heavy blow? What is the situation of this "white-eyed wolf" now? Is Sun Li relieved of what happened back then?
In 2001, I was filming a TV series at the timeSun Li accidentally saw a reportThis is the beginning of a period of her and thisPoor studentsof"Bad fate".
FiledSun Li, you may think of it firstShe and Deng Chao's happy marriagewithFamous film and television drama role- SimpleMi Yue,The early stage is small jasper, and the later stage is domineeringZhen HuanPoor and cuteAunt DuoheWait, she is often on the hot search because of public welfare, yesA person who is passionate about public welfareBut it's such a personWhat happened to make her "scolded" on the hot search?
This poor student isXiang Haiqing,Sun Li saw Xiang Haiqing thoughWith a young face and tattered clothes, he carried a heavy burden on his shoulders, but his eyes were full of thirst for knowledge and yearning for new things. Her heart was struck at once, and she felt that this child was so pitifulShe wanted to help him.
Xiang Haiqing,BornWuxi County, Chongqing Municipality,The reason why it appeared on the TV set was entirely because there happened to be a program about poor rural life at that time, and the name was called"Hope in the Mountain Village".。This is a TV show, a reporter from Chongqing TVQiu ChaojuCompleted coverage.
After Sun Li saw this report at that time, she was immediately taken by Xiao Xiang HaiqingI was moved by the tenacious temperament that is not afraid of hardship and difficultyarrived, so he found Qiu Chaoju and asked for this hard-working and simple rural child, hoping to donate this child until he graduated from college. Qiu Chaoju also felt that this was a good thing, so he cleared Xiang Haiqing without saying a wordHome address and school addressand other messages were given to Sun Li.
PerhapsSun LiI lived a good childhoodNot so happy,Her parents divorced when she was 12 years old, and she lives with her mother, who knows how much life is and how difficult life isThis experience made her resonate with this child at once.
Since I've been in the rain myself, I want to hold up an umbrella for others.
That's what Sun Li thought at that timeBut Sun Li was only 20 years old at the timeXiang Haiqing is only a few years younger than Sun Li.
Sun Li at that timeIt's not a smash hit star yet,herJust graduated, and has been playing tricks in the crew,Evenserved as a backup dancer behind Zhao Wei.
Sun Li was born in Shanghai in 1982 and is aOrdinary working families,She showed it as a childAmazing artistic prowess,Therefore, her mother sent her to the Children's Palace to learn dance, and she studied very seriously, and her grades have always been among the best. Due to the divorce of her parents, she wasAfter 7 years of wandering life,It is also because I grew up in a single-parent familySo she looks more mature than her peers and didn't want to get married at one point.
In 2005, she andDeng ChaoShoot together"Happiness is like a flower".fell in love with each other, and later the two got married.
Don't look at Sun Li's successful career and harmonious family now, but when she was determined to sponsor Xiang Haiqing, she has just struggled out of the quagmire of society, and she has a little fame. At the end of 2002 she was onlyFor the first time, she filmed "Jade Guanyin" as the female number one, she was seeing oneGreen and toughWhen I was a teenager, I wasIt seems to see myself who was struggling in the big dye vat of society before.
She wants to pull him!
AlthoughSun Li doesn't earn much by herselfBut she promised she would500 yuan a month to help Xiang Haiqing complete his studies, and encouraged him to change his destiny through learning, and then give back to the society.
learned that Xiang Haiqing's mother had asthma, and she returnedSpecially bought ** asthma medicine in Shanghai and sent it to his mother, and will send some togetherLearning materialsAnd for Xiang Haiqing to buyClothing and other necessities.
Sun Linot only helped Xiang Haiqing materially, but also encouraged him spirituallyoften writes to him or calls him to encourage him between filming, Sun Li really treats Xiang Haiqing as her younger brother!
Xiang Haiqing,At first, I was very moved by Sun Li's help, and he used such words to describe his feelings at that time.
"When I took the first money from Aunt Deng from my teacher, my hands were shaking and tears welled up in my eyes. ”
"I only vaguely saw the money in my hand jumping up and down, and my whole body was so numb that I didn't feel the teacher patting me on the shoulder, I was really moved, and that moment will never be forgotten. ”
Xiang Haiqing's words, between wordsIt's all grateful,Between the lines, it shows the love for Sun Li's mother and daughterThanks,But no one expected that"Sensationalism".'s words will eventually turn into a sharp sword stabbing at Sun Li.
Xiang Haiqing's first college entrance examination accidentally failed, Sun LiInstead of blaming, he encouraged him to take the exam for another yearAnd promised that he would continue to fund and continue to help Xiang Haiqing achieve his college dreamAfter the second year of the college entrance examination, Xiang Haiqing lived up to expectations and was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University (now Shanghai Ocean University).
Before this, Xiang Haiqing never knew that the person who rescued him was the big star Sun Li, and she had always thought of her mother"Aunt Deng".to donate. But now that Xiang Haiqing has been admitted to university, Sun Li feels that it is time"I met him".So I went to the station with my mother to pick up Xiang Haiqing.
Aunt Deng gave Xiang Haiqing a big hug, and Xiang Haiqing was shocked when he knew that his sister who had been supporting him was Sun Li.
But what Sun Li's mother and daughter didn't know was thatThe simple boy is quietly changing, and he is lost in the material world step by step.
After Xiang Haiqing entered the university, he did not study hard according to Sun Li's instructionsInstead, they gradually learned to compare and deceive people. On the grounds of contacting classmates as a class president,I have to pay a ** fee of 90 yuan every monthBut in 2005,Even office workers are reluctant to spend 90 yuan a month to socialize!
After Aunt Deng did not advise him to enter the student union to study hard,He actually chose to deceive people.
He said Sun Li's motherThere are verbal insults to myself, but these are allThere is no way to verify,We can't just listen to Xiang Haiqing's words.
He kept talking about poverty and angrily denounced the injustice of fate, butWill a really tough child** casually declare his unbearability? has always emphasized that his life is unsatisfactory, and it is clearHe got used to getting something for nothing, and he also developed the habit of spending lavishly, borrowing his own"Pathetic".to seek more benefits for themselves.
Xiang Haiqing not only hoped that Sun Li would help him during his studieseven wanted Sun Li to help her find oneEasy "good job",If Sun Li showed an unwilling attitude, he felt that it was"Complex people in society".in deception"Young and simple self". Clear to the sea"Weak".with"Poverty".as a mask to cover yourself"Hypocritical greed".The mouth of the face.
At this time, Xiang Haiqing had lost the innocence and simplicity of coming to Shanghai, but became extravagant, and said that his extravagance was all Aunt Deng telling him "don't save".
Later, it may be that Sun Li's mother, Aunt Deng, felt that this childLies and lies,After talking to the counselor, I decided not to sponsor the child anymore, which also ended the donation journey.
Later, Qiu Chaoju originally wanted to pay attention to Xiang Haiqing's recent situation, so he received thisseems to be "complaining about hardship", but in fact, it is "accusing Sun Li's mother and daughter of being stingy".of nearly six thousand words of article.
Qiu Chaoju was very angry after reading this letter, because he had a similar experience before, so he published the letter in a fit of anger, and the title was"Why the Seeds of Kindness Bear the Fruits of Mutation - The Grievances and Hatreds of a Poor College Student and a Celebrity Mother and Daughter".
In this speech, important information such as schools and names were coded, perhaps Xiang Haiqing was too much at the beginning"Pitiful",So many people think Sun Li"Immoral"., to Sun Li, who has just established herself in the entertainment industryVerbal and written criticism.
Although Sun Li suffered so"Unwarranted".Crimes,But he never said a word.
But later, Xiang Haiqing's classmates couldn't stand it anymore and broke the news on the Internet:Xiang Haiqing not only did not study well at school, but made girlfriends, bought brand-name clothes, received grants, and even had a monthly subsidy of 300 per month as a teacher's assistant. Not only is he very generous to the people around him, but he even once held a 6-day and 6-night tour outside the school.
Xiang Haiqing is also oftenUnder other pretextsasked Sun Li's mother and daughter for more living expenses, and the huge expenses made Sun Li confused. Every time I asked, Xiang Haiqing said that it was ** fee,But in 2005, did a small student cadre need a few hundred yuan a month?
Sun Li once revealed,She has great hopes for Xiang Haiqing, and wants to sponsor him to go abroad for further study, and she will do her best to train him, but Xiang Haiqing's scoundrel face again and again made Sun Li discover him"The true face of insatiable greed".
That teenager who was once full of future and hope now has only greed and shamelessness in his eyes!
Xiang Haiqing's behavior made him have a bad reputation, so he was thereWhen looking for a job, I hit a wall everywhereBecause no one will believe one"Grace will take revenge".of"White-eyed wolf". , are afraid that they will be betrayed, Xiang Haiqing"A mouth full of gratitude".But"My heart is full of calculations", and my stomach is full of "wolf teeth that eat people and don't spit out bones". He is now only working as a small clerk in a small company in his hometown, and has not really come to the big city"Make a career".
Sun Lidid not give up his kindness to do public welfare because of this incidentDuring these years, she has been focusing on public welfare, weSun Li can often be seen in primary schools in mountainous areasShe's still thereShangri-La has established two primary schoolsThe aim is to help more children achieve their dreams through learning.
The same is to sponsor students,A while ago, there was a poor student from Tsinghua University"Tree Hole" is popular all over the Internet.
This classmateNeither complained to everyone, nor sold miserablyRather, useThe most earthy and calm languageTold about his college life.
Even when life was so difficult, he didn't go for a place in poverty because he wanted to leave it to those who needed it more. Not only that, but he will also squeeze out excess money to sponsor poor students in addition to his graduate studies.
The most impressive thing is:Sincerely,And not a mouthful"Gibberish",The biggest difference between Xiang Haiqing and this college student is thatOne regards poverty as the ladder of his own progress, and the other regards poverty as his "protective color for the weak" to "open his mouth" to others.
One wants to gain a foothold in society,You can't take the help of others for granted, you should rely more on your own efforts to make progress, and rely on your own steps to walk out in a down-to-earth manner"Your own way".Instead of acting asA social moth.
People should have a grateful heart, and the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring.