Hello everyone, I am Mo Mozi, a lifelong learner who practices the unity of knowledge and action
Today, I read Mr. Liu Run's article "Refresh Yourself at Least Ten Times", and I feel that I have benefited a lot. The article gave me a new look forward to 2024, and that is the ability to refresh myself.
I had a very serious misunderstanding before, that is, I believe in the power of time, I will imagine that I will change a lot after many years, and I think that as long as it is that time, everything will be better, but we forget that we have to change before life can change.
I remembered that there was such a passage on the Internet:
We have to change before we can change our lives, if we are still reading yesterday's books, walking yesterday's way, and meeting yesterday's people, how can we change in the future?
Whether it's the people who consume us, the things that make us fear and anxiety, or a job that makes you feel meaningless, you have to clean up these things in order to regain the courage to move forward, to face what you are afraid of, and to approach what you want.
If you don't feel smart enough, you go to study, think about problems, you want to live differently, you go to research, contact different people, examine the past, review and summarize, it is to destroy and reshape, although the process is painful, but this is the only way to transform.
So in 2024, we have to refresh ourselves repeatedly.
Refresh ourselves, we refresh our cognition
The huge gap between people actually stems from the difference in cognition. We will never be able to earn more than we know. This is the biggest gap we have previously overlooked. This reminds me of AI technology, which is all the rage today. When it came to prominence, some people quickly seized the opportunity and successfully mined the first pot of gold. Others, however, may not know anything about the technology, or think it's just a ****. This gap in perception has directly led to a huge gap in wealth accumulation between the two.
Refresh our own cognition, but also refresh our own ability - we continue to improve our core competitiveness, while building our own irreplaceable, so how to build our own irreplaceable - in the original industry to be professional enough, and cultivate unique competitiveness, but also to have extensive knowledge and continuous learning.
What can really make us full of confidence is a rich knowledge reserve, sufficient economic foundation, stable emotions and a controllable rhythm of life, and the invincible self.
Refresh ourselves, we have to refresh our mentality
A very important mindset that I have learned in 2023 is:Allow anything to happen
Looking back now, I realize that those things that were once very difficult to solve are in the past, and it is because of those things that I have become stronger.
What can't be defeated by me will eventually make me stronger. Now I do things, more to do things within my control, as for those uncontrollable factors, in addition to doing relevant prevention in advance, the rest is to face it well.
Refresh your mindset - it is to give 120% confidence to yourself
Have the mindset of believing that you can become a better version of yourself, this sentence means:
[You have to blindly believe in your own bright future, and even believe in 120 - even if you are poured cold water by others and beat 20, you still believe in 100 times. Not only that, but once you find that there is only 100 left, you have to actively find a way to retrain this value to 120. The belief that we can always be who we want to be is the premise.
A good attitude can always keep us passionate and in shape!
Refresh ourselves, we have to refresh our own image.
Schopenhauer once said: "The appearance of a person is a reflection of the heart, which reveals all the characteristics of a person's destiny." "Your appearance not only shows your external growth, but also reflects your inner cultivation.
Your first impression, both in appearance and temperament, reveals the books you've read, the path you've traveled, and the life you're living and the lives you might have.
In this world, no one is obligated to look beyond your scruffy exterior to discover the interesting soul within you. Therefore, it is crucial to find a style that suits you.
Our image is not only about how we look, but also about how responsible we are to ourselves. Of course, we also have to dress up for our own happiness, because our happiness is the most important thing.
There are many aspects to refreshing yourself:
My current course of action is: set aside half a day or a day a week to do something I've never tried before. Only when we take the initiative to try can we learn more and experience more.
In the process, we not only broaden our horizons, but also enrich our inner world. By constantly refreshing ourselves, we can become more and more possibilities, discover our talents, and better face the challenges of this society.
So, in 2024, please refresh yourself repeatedly!
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I am Mo Mozi full of starlight, an INFP who practices the unity of knowledge and action, and a lifelong learner who focuses on self-improvement, records life through reading and writing, and becomes a free and warm writer, influencing life with life
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