Recently, I received a letter from a reader in the background, and the content of the content made me deeply concerned:
She mentioned that her boyfriend had a special preference, which was foot fetish. He always likes to kiss her feet during intimacy. However, for this reader, this behavior made her feel very uncomfortable and even dirty. She communicates about it, but is ridiculed by her boyfriend for being pretentious and not understanding the mood, and he claims to be so close to his previous girlfriends. She began to wonder if there was something wrong with her.
This situation has sparked me thinking about the common mistakes men make in their sex life, so I wanted to share some insights.
First of all, a common mistake men make is thinking that they know how to please women. In fact, every woman's sexual needs and preferences are unique, and past experiences don't apply to current partners. Therefore, men need to listen to women's needs and not blindly apply past experiences.
The second mistake is the lack of sexual communication. Communication is very important during sex. Many women may be too shy to express their needs, which requires men to take the initiative and communicate openly with their partners to explore each other's preferences and boundaries together.
Another common mistake is to think that women only need them. In fact, sex is a two-way experience, and men need to focus on and meet women's needs, not just pursue their own satisfaction.
In addition, men often make the mistake of overconfidence, believing that the longer and the more force, the better. However, excessive time and intensity can often lead to discomfort and fatigue in women, so moderate pace and intensity are more important.
Finally, men also need to pay attention to personal hygiene and health care to reduce the health risks that come with sex.
In conclusion, men's mistakes in sex often stem from misunderstanding and neglect of women's needs. Therefore, men need to pay more attention to and respect the needs of women in order to create a healthy and harmonious sexual relationship together.