Here are some tips you can try when chatting with a cold guy:
1.*Show your interests**: A cold guy may be more introverted, so you can take the initiative to show your knowledge of the things he is interested in and spark his interest and topics.
2.*Use a light-hearted and humorous tone**: Cool guys may not be very interested in serious topics, try to chat in a humorous and light-hearted way to make the atmosphere more pleasant.
3.*Ask open-ended questions**: Avoid asking questions that can only be answered with "yes" or "no", but ask open-ended questions to give him more space to express his thoughts and opinions.
4.*Listen and respond**: When he speaks, listen carefully and give a positive response so that he feels your attention and understanding.
5.*Share your own experiences**: Share some interesting experiences or opinions of yourself as appropriate, but don't dominate the conversation too much, and maintain a balanced communication.
6.*Don't be too eager**: Give the other person some time and space to respond, don't be too eager to pursue a response, and avoid putting pressure on him.
7.*Discover common interests**: Try to find your common interests or topics so that it will be easier to connect and resonate.
8.*Stay confident and independent**: Show yourself self-confidence and independence, don't rely too much on his responses, and let him see your charm.
9.*Respect his personal space**: A guy who is cold may need more personal space and respect his privacy and personal time.
10.*Patience and Consistent Effort**: Building a relationship with a guy who is cold can take some time and effort, don't give up easily.
Remember, everyone has their own personality and way of doing things, so adapt the conversation to their specific situation. The important thing is to be sincere and natural, not to deliberately pander to him, but to show who you really are.