To identify whether you love someone or not, it may take some time and self-observation. Here are some factors that may help you identify your feelings:
1.*Follow & Miss**:Do you miss him a lot and care about his life, work, and interests? Are you curious and concerned about his affairs?
2.*Emotional Response**:When you think of him, do you have special emotions in your heart, such as joy, warmth, tension, etc.?
3.*Sacrifice and Dedication**:Are you willing to make sacrifices, put in the time, energy, and effort for him? Would you like to lend a helping hand when he needs it?
4.*Physical Reaction**:When with him, will there be physical reactions such as rapid heartbeat, blushing, etc.?
5.*Shared Experience**:Do you like to share your life experiences and joys and sorrows with him? Looking forward to creating more great memories with him?
6.*Accept the cons**:Are you able to accept his flaws and shortcomings and still love him?
7.*Future Planning**:Do you include him in your thinking about the future and look forward to the future with him?
8.*Self-Sacrifice**:Loving someone can mean being willing to make some self-sacrifice for the sake of his happiness and interests.
9.*Trust & Respect**:Do you have trust in him and respect his opinions and decisions?
10.*Inner Feelings**:Most importantly, listen to your inner voice. Do you feel about him really, strongly, and differently from other feelings?
It is important to note that love is a complex emotion, and the experience may vary from person to person. Sometimes, it may take time for us to clarify our feelings. In addition, love is not just a feeling, but also an action and a commitment. If you are unsure about your feelings, try to spend more time with him and observe your reactions and feelings. At the same time, communicate with friends or family whose perspectives and experiences may also be helpful to you.