When you go out, between friends, and help each other is a matter of course. However, you must be cautious and careful when dealing with relationships with the opposite sex.
After all, between the same sex, it may only be out of politeness or interest exchanges, but between the opposite sex, there are often many emotional factors.
Just think about it, a woman you secretly like and ask you to help her, even if it may damage your interests, will you still make a relatively beneficial decision after weighing the pros and cons. But if there is no exchange of interests between people of the same sex, but you need to pay a certain price, would you be willing?
Feelings are often like this, the onlookers see clearly, but the authorities are often confused. As a man, you are born with the obligation to protect women, but your protection and kindness must be given to those women who deserve it.
Some women, she just relies on your good impression of her and is doing whatever she wants to you. Even, it is deliberately to deceive you and hurt you. In the face of such a woman, you can be kind, but don't get hurt. If you can, you can naturally lend a hand; Grace will take revenge, then don't eat enough and have nothing to do.
Generally speaking, if a woman asks you to borrow this thing, no matter how much she likes it, no matter how good the relationship is, she has to refuse, she is here to compromise your good fortune.
1.I know that you are married, and I still ask you to borrow a hugHugging seems to be a simple action, but between the opposite sex, it often contains deep emotions.
When a woman knows that you are married, but still borrows a hug from you, her mind may not be so simple. She may be testing your bottom line, or she may be challenging your marriage.
Faced with this situation, men must resolutely refuse. Because it's not only respect for your marriage, but also for your partner.
If you agree to her request because of a momentary soft-heartedness or impulsiveness, then what awaits you is likely to be endless troubles and remorse.
2.Knowing that it is not easy for you, I have repeatedly asked you to borrow money and not pay it back
Money is a sensitive topic, and it is also a topic that can easily lead to contradictions. When a woman knows that your life is not easy, but she still borrows money from you again and again and does not pay it back, you should be vigilant.
She may not really need the money, but is using you as her ATM.
Such a woman, not only does she not know how to cherish the fruits of your labor, but also does not know how to respect your feelings. If you repeatedly meet her demands, then she will only squeeze you more unscrupulously until you can't bear it anymore.
Therefore, in the face of such a woman, you must learn to refuse and learn to protect your interests.
3.Borrow your power resources to do bad things
Power resources are a double-edged sword. If it is used well, it can benefit one party; If it is not used well, it can also bring disaster to the country and the people. When a woman lends your power resources to you to do something improper, you should firmly refuse her.
Because it's not only a test of your work ethic, but also a test of your conscience.
If you agree to her request because of a moment of confusion or righteous anger, then what awaits you is likely to be the sanction of the law and the condemnation of society.
And what about the woman? She may be able to get away for a while because of your help, but she will also end up paying the price for what she did.
Therefore, in the face of such a woman, you must stick to your bottom line and principles.
In short, men must be cautious and careful when dealing with relationships with the opposite sex. You must resolutely refuse requests that are clearly deceptive or detrimental to your interests.
Because of your kindness and protection, it should be given to those women who truly deserve it. And the women who will only use you and hurt you, they are not worth your sacrifice and sacrifice.