The exercise of human sophistication is a gradual process that involves subtle adjustments and adaptations in many aspects.
There are people who usually hide their true thoughts and intentions, and are good at showing a relaxed and natural state on the surface. They will show their innocent side, but in reality, they have a deep understanding and preparation for various situations inside.
Someone shows a sense of brisk and directness in communication, but they usually become wary and cautious on key issues. They will pretend to be stupid and behave, and for some sensitive topics, they will usually say that they do not know, do not understand or do not know.
Someone is usually good at getting information from conversations. They are able to skillfully guide conversations to understand the interests and perspectives of others. By creating an image, you will be able to better respond to situations and remain calm when faced with difficulties or crises. When dealing with things, people often occupy the moral high ground so that others cannot refute it. Make sure you're in a good position by controlling your emotions and judging the situation.
There are people who are able to control their emotions and not show them easily. Even if they show emotions, they have a clear purpose and plan. They will also adopt a sensitive and delicate attitude to listen to the meaning of others, understand the small expressions and emotional changes of others, and be able to adjust their attitudes, words and deeds according to the reactions of others.
When dealing with people, they usually maintain a cautious and rational attitude, have a clear understanding of the various interests, and will cooperate with others without touching their core interests. They will not easily reveal their true intentions and emotions, so as to protect themselves.
A mature person not only needs to have certain knowledge and ability, but also needs to have flexible thinking and emotional control ability. Only through continuous learning and practice can we truly grasp the essence of human feelings and sophistication and flexibly apply them in life.