Time flies, and when people reach old age, they often have some unusual life realizations.
At this stage, people gradually learn to restrain their rhetoric and think deeply. However, there are some things that, if discussed lightly, may not accumulate good fortune.
In this article, the elderly should try to talk less about their three things in their interactions to maintain interpersonal harmony and maintain inner peace.
Topic 1: Personal achievements and experiences
When people reach old age, they often accumulate rich experience and certain achievements.
However, talking too much about personal accomplishments and experiences can be uncomfortable for others.
In their interactions, older people should be humble and low-key, and not too much about their achievements.
While sharing experiences, it is important to focus on empathy and sharing, so that communication becomes a pleasant and mutually supportive experience.
The life journey of the elderly is rich and colorful, full of wisdom and insight.
However, in interactions, it is more appropriate to talk about personal achievements and experiences in moderation.
Share the joy of success, but don't stress too much, pay more attention to the other person's feelings, and make the communication balanced and harmonious.
By sharing at the right time, the other party can better understand the life experience of the elderly and resonate.
Topic 2: Illness and physical discomfort
Older people should try to avoid talking too much about their illnesses and physical discomfort in their interactions.
While physical conditions will inevitably be a concern, overemphasizing illness can cause dullness and annoyance to others.
It is advisable to mention it appropriately and pay attention to the other person's physical condition, but avoid being the object of nagging, and maintain an open-minded mind, which can win the respect and favor of others.
The condition of the body is an important aspect of concern for the elderly, but in the interaction, the degree of speech must be mastered appropriately.
Older people can mention their physical condition in moderation, but not so nuanced that they don't make communication dull.
It is also necessary to pay attention to the physical condition of the other party, show care, and make the relationship full of warmth and care.
Topic 3: Family Trivialities and Private Feelings
Family is one of the most important topics for older people, but it can be confusing to talk too much about family chores and personal emotions in interactions.
In your dealings with others, you should maintain a moderate amount of privacy and do not talk too much about your family's internal affairs in public.
Through deep thinking, older people can find the right time and way to share the joys and troubles of their families.
The family is the center of the life of the elderly and the source of emotion.
However, in interactions, talking too much about family trivialities and personal feelings can make communication seem narrow.
The elderly can share the joy of family moderately, but they should pay more attention to the balance in communication and not let family become the only topic.
Through moderate sharing, the other party can better understand the family concept of the elderly and promote empathy.
To maintain a good interpersonal relationship, we need not only tolerance and understanding of the soul, but also appropriate and restrained words.
Older people can better maintain interpersonal harmony and make their minds more tranquil by trying to talk less about their personal achievements and experiences, illnesses and physical discomforts, as well as family trivialities and private feelings.
I hope that every elderly friend can maintain peace of mind in the interaction with others, and enjoy the tranquility and pleasure of old age.